My husband asked if I was happy last night while we were putting our baby girl to sleep. I was already pissed because it seems no matter what I'm the only who stays up till midnight or later with her to get her to go to bed because we accidentally take late naps because he doesn't come home until whenever because he was working late or he's helping someone who wouldn't help him if he needed to return the favor. My whole thing is, come home and be there for your family and give me a "break" when I need it( I had a horrible migraine last night) because I'm taking care of our toddler & growing your son all day everyday. But I'm the unhappy bitch, right? Just venting... Not looking for answers.
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It sounds like you both have an understanding of what you expect from each other and that's a good thing! @keeshonta
He sounds like a piece of work! @lexdotjayy 😒🙄 I couldn't deal. 🙅🏾
yes ma'am ! icant really relate because we are expecting our first && he very big on coming home after work even gets off sometimes && drives me to class . but it's probably that way cause this is both our first && he has all the symptoms along w| me . but some days he does come home bxtchy cause ididnt clean up which happened twice but ihad to make him understand that was two days ijust didn't have the strength to cook && clean ... try my best to do it though because he brings in the income && doesn't complain when ineed && want anything !
she lets him walk all over her & that shit pisses me off . he talks to her any type of way & all she does is cry . one day he came at me crazy , I think I was 5 months .. she had got pulled over & she's not supposed to be driving cause she has seizures . He was screaming at me like why tf would you let her almost get arrested , I bet you wouldn't care if they took her . My license was suspended & I can't drive at night . I went ape shit & told her she better get him before I stab his ass .
That's what I keep telling myself @keeshonta There's a lot of "me" things I want to do for myself after our son is born. First & foremost, permanent birth control... I have some health/fitness goals I want to see come alive... and just things that I know I can do for myself to be happy. You can't let your happiness depend on someone else entirely. Because then you'll end up disappointed; like I am now 😂 @keeshonta
That's F'd up. I couldn't cope with that. I'm sorry she has to deal with that. I pray God gives her strength to do what she needs to do for herself & her son and not worry about him too much. @lexdotjayy
girl , my sister's husband gets off of work at 3 everyday but doesn't come home until 7 & when he does , he comes in the house bitching about how it's a mess & why she didn't cook . then he goes to the porch to smoke where he doesn't come out for hours , comes back in to bitch some more , eats , smokes so more then goes to sleep . not once does he spend time w. my sister & my nephew .
It's so ridiculous. I'm over here feeling like a single mother and he's just out expecting everything to be taken care of. @lexdotjayy
sounds just like my sister . same shit she goes thru ..
I can't stand him 😒 my husband said if he hits the lotto , he'd pay my sister to leave him . he doesn't like the way she gets treated .