Well he was acting that way even before his daughters got here. And we got in a fight about it. And nothing has changed, especially now with his daughters here. 😕 I'm trying my best I guess maybe I could try harder and see how he is. @aburch1527

most men don't really understand until you sit them down and explain what we want or need from them. I've been there it's rough at first.. hang in there momma it gets easier💗 just sit him down and be like look I know you love your girls but I need some of your time and attention also.

I don't even know what to say to him without him feeling like I'm attaching him. And him just being like well they're my daughters and that's that. Sunday night I asked him if I could steal him for the night and he said no because they will get up in the night. And Monday night he snuck in here for like not even an hr and his oldest yelled out for him and he went right back in there@aburch1527

I have no time with him what so ever, no affection or love or barely any attention from him. So I was looking forward to bed time thinking finally i get to cuddle up with him and have a tiny bit of qt time together. But nope can't even have that. It's really hard and I'm trying to be s good sport and just deal with it. But most women being in my shoes would leave 😕 @aburch1527

I'd try talking to him about it before hand so he can start wearing them off that it'll be alot easier on everyone than stopping cold turkey. they may end up regretting the new baby for "taking their dad". just a suggestion

we don't believe in co sleeping either.. my 5 year old step daughter and 1 1/2 year old sleep in their own beds in their own rooms. if my son is sick then I'll sleep on the couch with him but that's it.

if I wanna have sex or cuddle with my husband I shouldn't have to worry about our kids in the bed. i have an exception of a newborn cuz I don't wanna be up every hour to nurse it's easier to have them right next to the bed in their own bassinet

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His daughters share a bed do its not like they are alone. I personally don't believe in co sleeping. I wasn't raised like that and I don't like it. Children of all ages need to be in their own beds. An exception is if they are sick or scared that's different otherwise no. @mrsschmalz

It sucks I have to deal with this until Aug. when they go back home. but I really can't say anything to him about it until our son is here. @aburch1527

Yeah I totally agree, it's BS to me. That's why come Dec. when they are here again I'm putting my foot down cause our son will be here then and he needs to be in here with us. @aburch1527

that's way to old to be sleeping with them.. I could understand maybe sitting with them until they fall asleep but not actually sleeping with them

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Much to old for him to be sleeping with them 7 and 8. He told me he does cause they won't go to sleep if he doesn't 😒 they are big girls our room is right next to theirs they aren't far! They need to get over it