Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,

his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Idk if this is a little to harsh but my stepson is 2 and 7 months now the time outs are not working so I stepped it up a little and decided to take all toys away and tv away for whatever he has left of the day till bed time. Gets it taken for hitting us or throwing toys or kicking... He kicked me right in the mouth last night so he didn't get his toys till after nap and no cartoons and thats around 4pm is this to much??

What are the step-parent step-child boundries? Should step parents discipline, take on special outtings, style hair Ect?

Do you think step parents should be allowed to spank step children?

I love my (step) dad lol. I've been having a horrible two weeks due to family issues and having to put down my ferret. I don't see him as a step parent, I see him as my parent, hes been in my life since I was 9 months old. Also, he know I'm posting this lol.