So I read somewhere that you could check your cervix yourself to see if you've dilated. Well I tried to do just that, but I can't find my cervix 😳. I reached my finger in as far as I could go, but I didn't feel anything. I know I have one (lol duh), but how do I find it?
You couldn't find a babysitter?!
Mommas, do you take your kids with you to run errands and go to mundane appointments? On two separate occasions, a doctors appointment for me and today at a car service appointment, someone has remarked "you couldn't find a babysitter?!" It never crossed my mind to find a babysitter. I take my 2 kids with me just about everywhere. They are well behaved (minus the occasional 3 year old meltdown) and one of them is attached to my boob the majority of the time anyw...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

I thought a few ladies on here could do with this. It's so true!
how do I get my cervix to dilate!!!!!
You probably have to reach farther. When my doctor first started checking me it was really uncomfortable because he really had to get up there. Now that baby has dropped he doesn't have to reach so far.