Well now I have no one to watch my daughter when I have my son. my mom (who has a form of muscular…

Well now I have no one to watch my daughter when I have my son. my mom (who has a form of muscular dystrophy, chiari one malformation, and is still recovering from a shattered ankle) has taken a job full time and will not be able to watch her. I have no other friends or family to help neither does my husband. it's literally one thing after another. she tells me my 17 yr old brother can watch her and my step dad. my brother freaks if she drools or passes gas. my step dad is legally blind. I see neither of them being able to handle it at all so I just told her to forget it we will take her with us and my husband will just have to miss out on cutting the cord and being able to help me labor and heaven help me If I end up with another c section and he can't be back there with me because he has to watch her....how am I supposed to rely on her for child care now when I have to go back to work so we can pay bills? she's supposed to be sitting on her ass like her doctor and lawyer told her to do until she is either approved for disability or approved for the brain surgery. she is not supposed to be working.