kelcyfreese
kelcyfreese
So I need to vent and ask a question:
My best friend I guess thinks that I've been sharing too many pregnancy memes (about having dogs instead of kids etc. didn't think it was a big deal) that are all funny and most people my age can relate to them, whatever. Trying to make light of the situation I'm in.
She texts me telling me that I'm a hypocrite for posting those kinds of things after my miscarriage and that I'm trying to portray myself as someone that I'm not on Facebook.
Am I wrong to feel like it isn't her place to say anything like that to me? Regardless of whether or not she knew about my infertility and having to see a specialist?
My best friend I guess thinks that I've been sharing too many pregnancy memes (about having dogs instead of kids etc. didn't think it was a big deal) that are all funny and most people my age can relate to them, whatever. Trying to make light of the situation I'm in.
She texts me telling me that I'm a hypocrite for posting those kinds of things after my miscarriage and that I'm trying to portray myself as someone that I'm not on Facebook.
Am I wrong to feel like it isn't her place to say anything like that to me? Regardless of whether or not she knew about my infertility and having to see a specialist?
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@mrsschmalz, that's what my mom said. And I've learned that mom is right like 98% of the time haha
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@mrsschmalz, that's what my mom said. And I've learned that mom is right like 98% of the time haha
I meant that as more of what she expects you to be doing - the grieving part. Sorry I didn't clarify ☺️
@phinnybinz, I wouldn't even call it grieving. I think it's more just me coping with the fact I went through a loss and am going to have a difficult time in the future. She doesn't understand it and for her to tell me how I'm being when she's never gone through it just makes me upset. And I told her that but then she went on to say that she wasn't trying to attack me.
I would explain to her that not everyone grieves publicly forever. No, you're not wrong for posting something that has to do with pregnancy on your FB after a loss. Even if you're being different publicly than you are privately - that's your right.