Mom.life
sorry for the rant but nothing sickens me more than walking around town or whatever and people constantly staring at my bump and giving me constant dirty looks, frowning and walking away bad mouthing me for being pregnant 'so young'😤 to be fair I'm not the tallest of people😂 but I'm 18 years old and I'm not the youngest person ever to be pregnant? young mums can be good mums too! sometimes they can do an even better job than older mothers! everyone has the capacity and capability to be a brilliant parent no matter what age you are!😴
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lissy22
lissy22
As long as you can financially support yourself and your baby it doesn't matter what age you are x
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emmaclark
emmaclark
it gets so much worse when you're pushing a pram, I'm 19 but seriously look about 16😂 always get dirty looks but you just gotta ignore them xx
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donzi.harri
donzi.harri
ppl need to shut their mouths hun. ignore the nosy gits xx
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homely.mummy.no2
homely.mummy.no2
I still get paranoid that everyone is staring at me. But your right. When I was 19 I had my first son (I looked about 17) and ppl just stared. This time at 27 people smile and ask me questions. But your know what, who cares. As you said Young mums can be brilliant. I think i have been a brilliant mum, my son, friends and family agree. Just prove them wrong in the long run 💪🏼!!! You can't please everyone!! We weren't born to either 😄
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robotunicorn
robotunicorn
I get this all the time too! Especially earlier when I was in town. It always seems to be the older generation too. it makes me so angry especially if I'm having a bad day. I'm 19 so I wouldn't say im incredibly young, some people are so rude lol. Don't get why people need to judge a parent by their age. Xx
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kate_smith
kate_smith
Medically speaking it is pretty much the prime age to have a first child (I believe it is currently believed that 20 is the best age), people should be grateful for building an (at least statistically speaking) healthier nation! Wish I was younger, but oh well :)
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tresea
tresea
I have this all the time I'm 22 had my first at 20 but I'm 4foot.11 and look about 15 but get this all the time I feel like telling um to mind there one biznes its so frustrating makes you feel like your not good enough to be a mum xx
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bruna98x
bruna98x
@zoeleigh, oh my!😂 I wish I had the guts to say that lol it just makes me feel too uncomfortable and I tend to avoid eye contact completely lol, but will take your advice!😜 thank you xxx
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bruna98x
bruna98x
@canteloupe24, @suzie80 well that makes me feel a lot better I'm not the only one lol! thank you ladies :)
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bruna98x
bruna98x
@baby-2016, that's amazing to hear being so young and being able to cope, I'm sure you're a fantastic mum!😊 oh definitely you can never win, I fell pregnant at 17 I'm due next week (now 18) I think it's because I look a lot younger lol xx
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bruna98x
bruna98x
@ssumner, I completely avoid eye contact after I know I'm being talked about😂 but thank you so much!x
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bruna98x
bruna98x
@donzi.harri, haha I think that would be only thing keeping me content thinking that lol it's just the sly remarks, completely uncalled for! Thank you xx
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suzie80
suzie80
Lol @zoeleigh
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zoeleigh
zoeleigh
Me too @suzie80 - it's happened so many times now and I've given up telling people I'm 30 next year.

Best response I use to the snide looks and comments?
"Oooooh, call Jeremy Kyle!"
You can have that one ;) xxx
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suzie80
suzie80
I get this and I'm 36 but don't look it so I'm told, they get more of a shock when I tell them my eldest is nearly 18 😂
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canteloupe24
canteloupe24
I'm 19 and happens me all the time too. Sometimes it really gets me down but then I think about how lucky I am and pitty the narrow minded people :)
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id5646486
id5646486
ignore them chick. I had my twins at 15, then my 3rd at 18 my 4th at 20 my 5th at 23 and had my 6th 10 days ago and I'm only 26. I get a lot of stares and negative comments but I ignore them stuff what people say. they moan about young people having children and they also moan if older women have children so we can't win @bruna98x xx
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missing240user
missing240user
It's their problem hun, not yours. I'm sure you'll be a great mum 👍
I get stared at wherever I go as well, and I'm 31! I just smile at them and they look away lol. x
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donzi.harri
donzi.harri
ppl stare at me hun and I'm 31.... so I'm guessing they r thinking... wow she must be hot... ooh wonder how long she has etc... don't let it worry u hunni xx
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bruna98x
bruna98x
@hrbn2, it happens so often and I don't usually react at all it never bothers me but today is just one of those days where every little thing is getting to me🤔😂 although I completely agree with you, thank you so much😊xx
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id3011143
id3011143
@bruna98x, try not to let them get to you, I know it can be horrible, but you know you'll be a great mum. I was 18 when I had my first, now 20 having my second. The people that matter are the people who accept you and do not judge you for your age, anyone else is just plain ignorant. Young mums are capable of being amazing, just as all other mums are xx
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courtniegeexo
courtniegeexo
I know but leave them too it they've just got narrow minds ☺️ and thanks hunnie xxx @bruna98x
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bruna98x
bruna98x
@courtniegeexo, it's absolutely ridiculous how judgemental some people are nowadays😤 thanks so much hun & you too!🙈xxx
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courtniegeexo
courtniegeexo
I get the same Hun my daughter is due on my 18th birthday and constantly get mucky looks wherever I go, just ignored them you will be a great mummy ☺️xxx
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