My husband is honestly stressing me out he keeps on saying we have stuff sort out and harping on…

My husband is honestly stressing me out he keeps on saying we have stuff sort out and harping on about things that need 'doing' and has said that me and baby need to sleep downstairs in living room as he wants to paint our bedroom this means we would have to sleep on a sofa how is this allowing me to relax on a comfortable bed, the bedroom can wait. I find it hard to relax even though I've been told too. I'm sore, I have period like cramping but he doesn't seem to understand. I can't really bend down but he can't understand this either. I just get moaned at for not doing much or for being lazy even his mum says I need to rest now Xx but yet he keep harping on about what's for dinner and what I'm going to do tomorrow what if I just rest tomorrow and sleep is this really a crime!