Okay ladies (Mommies) I need some advice. My boyfriend cheated on me and I'm pregnant..... ( I know,…
Okay ladies (Mommies) I need some advice. My boyfriend cheated on me and I'm pregnant..... ( I know, sad right?) but the thought of raising a child fresh out the hospital seems scary (being my first child and all) but when would be the appropriate time/age/etc to move out & move on? I really don't want to raise a child alone, on my own but I DEFINITELY don't want to be with him anymore, like he cheated and continues to cheat in my face with the NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR (of all ppl) but yeah.... any advice please!!!
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#ANYmoms
deleted-user·
The appropriate time to move on is now. Yall dont need to live or stay together to raise a child. And i rather raise a child alone than to be disrespected. That chick next door probably laughing in your face. I would not deal with that. I'm sorry your boyfriend is a POS. I hope you get away from that. You don't deserve it
Jess 🕊·
You don't have to be with the father to be productive co-parents. It's not going to be easy I'll tell you that but your motherly instincts kick in and you'll be fine. As far as co-parenting that's going to take time too. Me and my ex still fight over stupid shit because emotions are defiantly still involved but trust me it's much healthier for your baby to raise him or her as a single mom that to raise him or her in a household with 2 parents that don't really want to be together.
Jess 🕊·
Leave now and give yourself time to mentally and emotionally prepare before baby comes. You have another 10 weeks to become as strong as you can. Trust me when you see your baby's face any doubt will go out the window because you'll realize your emotions don't matter it's how he treats your baby that will drive you.
darrian·
В ожидании первенца
you can divorce him if you have proof of his cheating easy and collect alimony and child support. i know raising a child with him will be hard because of the feelings involved but you don't want your future child to see you guys forcing a marriage like that
Alex·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (27 нед.)
I would say move out and move on now. He can still co parent but I would not want to live with someone like that.
Gabi·
Leave now. You shouldn't put up with that. Your baby deserves better
chanel·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I've been there done that and the best thing I can say is leave it may be hard but it's harder to have to watch him cheat and raise your child. if you leave it will be hard at first but you will find a program that works for you and you will eventually be happy again. I'm praying for your girl I know this is devastating.
Josy·
it doesn't matter who they cheat with. it hurts anyways. I say if your in a tight spot stay but have a plan to kick his butt to the curb. save money. make sure all bills are on his name so he is responsible. get all the money you can get. don't have your name tied to him if at all possible. u plan and u move. don't even give him an explanation. on top of that if your not working go apply for cash benefits too. some men think they can do whatever they want to do and no consequences will come to them. think about only yourself and your child. trust me another man will want you child and all.
Josy·
another thing if a woman cheats on a man 9 times out of 10 he won't want you anymore. a man doesn't put up with a woman doing the very things he would do or has done. he will leave you and not only that but act like he deserves a virgin or a perfect person.
dee ·
In 2014 I had my first daughter and My BF was acting a complete donkey in every way my entire pregnancy. He crossed every single line. So I decided I just couldn't be with him anymore. My daughter was only 4 days old when I moved on my own. I had no clue wth I was doing and so afraid and alone because I also didn't have help of my family But hunny let me tell you I got through it, I was and still am a kick ass mom. It made me stronger as a mother and my 2 year old and I are each others world. Fast foward to now, he finally got his act together and realized his mistakes and we are expecting our 2nd child.