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mommybash724
Erin·Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет)
So I made a post last night about my preterm labor & wanting to have my little girl. & other ladies got upset at my post. here's my rant, idc who you are, but if you've spent your while being told that you'd never carry life, let alone make it & then have the chance too. it's an amazing but nerve wrecking feeling. my first daughters pregnancy was perfect. delivery perfect. I was induced 5 days early due to the pressure of her sitting to low & I would lose feeling in my legs. now with my second daughter, I've had multiple complications. she's healthy but my body was taking a major hit. BP problems, kidney infections, kidney stones, early braxton hicks, preterm labor at 29 weeks, steroid injections at 32 weeks, weekly hospital stays, one night my body literally was giving up, I was sick from both ends, dehydrated from being sick, my BP was high & my ob told me that I wouldnt make it full term & deliver her safely. so all those who made comment about me wanting to have her early, can shove it. because if it means she would live a healthy life & I'd pass on, then so be it. I am a mother & first & foremost. she's weighs 6.3 lbs 19.2 inches everything is fully matured. & my ob said she can come out & be healthy & see no time in nicu. so if I have to give up my last breathe for her first, I will. stop beating people down if you don't know the story.
06.06.2016
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mommybash724
Erin·Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет)
thank you. I'm just waiting. & I'm hoping that nothing goes wrong. this last was the first week I didn't have to be in the hospital for anything. but cramps, pressure & pain have had me bed ridden her head is definitely in the ready set go position lol
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armyvet_working_mom_of_4
Melinda Parker·Мама четверых детей
Totally understand. If you got blessed with another child, then god will help you through it. I hope I didn't get to religous. I have three kids of my own, and pregnant. I am just thankful everything going ok. I will deff keep you in my thoughts.
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mommybash724
Erin·Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет)
@soon_2_be_mom_of_4, I should have listened when they said 1 miracle baby was enough. ha but things happen & we never know what our bodies will do. I just pray that everything goes smoothly. my midwives & my ob are very blunt & don't hide anything or beat around the Bush, so they've gotten their point acrossed. I've been on bed rest since May 15. which was my last day of work. but I'm restricted to 30 mins on my feet to help circulation & get some exercise. I may exceed that at times but I have a 2.5 years old & she's ornery so it's difficult to just sit still for one & I'm an on the go person with out being pregnant.
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armyvet_working_mom_of_4
Melinda Parker·Мама четверых детей
I tell you what. You do what doctor says, the one who knows what's going on. Maybe the wording got them I don't know, but you shouldn't have to explain a damn thing to anyone. I am so sorry you're going threw all that.
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mommybash724
Erin·Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет)
I know, but it's aggravating when women assume we want our babies to come early to meet them or hole them. yes I'd love too, but I want her to come out so if there are complications they can be taken care of. I'm scared shit less to carry to full term.
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nay2greene
Nay G.·Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)
Girl, YOU. DONT. OWE. ANYONE. AN. EXPLANATION.
you're entitled to feel, want, wish, desire whatever it is you please to.
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