I absolutely do not regret my daughter at all, but I really wish she didn't have the father that she…
I absolutely do not regret my daughter at all, but I really wish she didn't have the father that she does!
When I first found out I was pregnant Joe was all excited and kept saying the baby was going to be a boy! The day we went and found out the gender he was very disappointing when they said it's a girl! He wouldn't talk to anyone he just went straight to the vehicle. He then slowly started to seem excited about her, but wouldn't go to any of the appointments or anything! Well I came back to my moms house for Christmas and never went back to joes house after that. He tried and tried to get me to come back but I never would. Well he suddenly quit talking to me or even asking about his daughter. Every time I would text him he wouldn't answer me or anything, but then I seen on Facebook that he had moved back to Indiana to be with his ex! I never heard from him until April and when he messaged me I told him how I had changed her name an everything because he quit coming around or even asking about her. I also told him how she was having TWO ultrasounds done on her heart to make sure everything was okay with it, but he was pissed because I changed her name an everything! After I told him about her heart he never once messaged me again to see if everything turned out to be okay or anything. Well when I went into the hospital Sunday I never told him or anyone in his family, and I never even told them when I had her Wednesday. Well my sister in law has his sister in law as friends on Facebook and I forgot so when my sister in law posted pictures of Tinley Joes sister in law seen them and told joe I had her. Well he decided to wait until yesterday (Friday) to message me and when he did he didnt even ask about her he demanded me to call him so we could get the DNA process going because he is up here at his moms right now! I never once messaged him back and then he messages me a little bit ago saying he would get a lawyer, which I'm perfectly fine with, but as soon as I message him back saying she doesn't need him and that he could go ahead and get a lawyer he turns around and says he just needs proof to completely know she is his! &&I he is still trying to call her by the name he had picked, not her actual name.
I seriously can not stand him and pray he will just leave me alone for good! She does not need him in her life and I honestly don't want him around her.
Petra·
Мама двоих (11 лет, 14 лет)
If he goes through that much trouble to even say whether or not she is his, and you know that she is.
Then no he doesn't need to be apart of her life.
He doesn't need a DNA test to prove anything, he needs to be a father to his baby.
Brittany·
Мама дочки-младенца
He's just wanting one because of the girl he is with. @canadiangirl
Ciara·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I'm so sorry you deal with this. I feel the same way. I absolutely love my son. I was a teen mom but I don't regret him but I regret having him with who I did. His father was really abusive. My son is almost 6 and neither one of us have seen/talked to him since right after my sons third birthday when he nearly killed me in front of our son! I'm now with someone else and my son looks at him as his dad. I hope things look up for you and your baby girl!!
Brittany·
Мама дочки-младенца
It use to bother me because I never wanted to have a child grow up without both parents but he has showed me multiple times that he doesnt care and I'm honestly okay with it. I just wanna take care of MY baby girl without the drama an stuff. @ciaramarie