I swear I'm about to snap! Let me just vent for a second! My husband is so fucking immature and selfish its in real! This mf STAYS no LIVES for his fucking game!!!! I have counted and literally 26 words have been spoken to me all day! The longest period I've seen him was when he sat at table to eat breakfast with his family! And he just sat there eating and staring at the wall instead of actually bonding! Which honestly I was kind of impressed because dude literally NEVER eats dinner with us! I'll take him his plate down stairs if he doesn't come get his own when I tell him it's done and he will sit it on the bed and take a hour to eat the shit because he can't stop playing. I'm about to go to the hospital for the third time since being pregnant ( last two he didn't text or check on us or even ask when I got home ) I can barely walk! I'm dealing with a BAD abscess in between my legs (sorry TMI) but I do shave so ingrown hairs have happened and this is the second time I've had one get infected! I can walk I can't sit I can't lay on my side I can't even close my legs!!! Still had to cook dinner and have dealt with the kids and dog the entire day!!! I'm seriously seriously seriously sick of the fucking childish shit!!!! Like you say u want your family but you have us and u don't do a damn thing with us! Not even talk to us! Never spends time with us ever!!! But this Mf works with his buddies comes home and plays games with his buddies and if he leaves the house he going golfing with his buddies of working on fish tank with his buddies!!!!!! 😡😡😡😡😡😡💀🔫
You and baby are priority number one!! If he can't get on board with that, don't let him being u down with him. Guys usually don't get it together until after the baby comes but that's just ridiculous.. If it were me with a guy like that. I'd do everything in my power to make him help out around the house so he could see what has to be done @brittanylove you don't do things because u want to , you do them because u have to.. I'm sorry u have to deal with that.
That's the thing @myliltadpole1116 I've gave him two wake up calls since moving 28 hrs away from everyone and thing I know and when I'm packing my shit he will break down and basically beg me not to leave and that things will be different. And he is damn near perfect for about two weeks at the most and then this crap starts happening again! I'm seriously considering other options at this point! Baby boy will be here within 50 days and this dude just can't get it together. We are so un prepared it's ridiculous! But I blame some of that on myself because I decided to wait until after the baby to stay looking for a job. But still!
@myliltadpole1116, thanks for responding because I think if u wouldn't have I would have exploded! Lol having no one makes it so much worse! And yea I understand then not waking up until after baby but this is our second together and makes three total! I'm so over it and so close to being done and giving up for good. I'm sick of begging and that's exactly how I feel! I feel like I have to beg for him to be a dad and husband. And that shit is degrading u know