Lately have been thinking about adoption but I feel like it's too late to make that decision

It's never to late to give your child the best life possible!

People decide a week after bringing their baby home that they want to go thru with adoption. If you feel like you truly are not in the position to parent, please seek help and options available so that your child has the best chance at life. I hope that maybe you're hormones are getting to you and you're nervous. Regardless, I wish you the best and I hope you get whatever support you need to make the best decision for you and your baby.

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Just make sure it's the right decision. You can wait until after you meet her to make that choice & could still find the perfect little family for her if you choose adoption.

Not too late

It's been hard. I grew up without a father and it was hard for me. I know my baby is going to end up growing up without one too and I don't want that for her. I live in a tiny 2 bedroom apartment with 6 other people. It's just not a good environment as much as I'd like to keep her. I feel no connection to her, I've kind of pushed everything to the side. I'm close to my due date though so I know I have to do something I can't avoid it forever. @arivera64

I'm sorry mama. I know you said you don't feel a bond, but i want you to realize that you have a love for this child that is so amazing just because you are so concerned about how she will grow up! I can't tell you the right or wrong thing to do, I just want you to know that you should quickly seek out all of your resources and get the help you need. Many people do open adoption these days too, where you can be a part of the baby's life. I really wish you the best mama!

Can I share my opinion, once you see/hold that baby for the first time it will change your whole world ❤️

@kelsicutie, it's a hard decision, I'm in the same place right now, but do what you think is best and is right.