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Rebecca

Sort of annoyed at my husband 😡 he wanted me to show him pictures of my friends we will be meeting…

Sort of annoyed at my husband 😡 he wanted me to show him pictures of my friends we will be meeting and he commented saying one of them was pretty and here is me who probably weighs a ton! He never gives me any compliments ... And I don't know if he finds my changing self unattractive Probably Your right I have low self esteem given how big I am but I am carrying his baby and maybe I'm taking it all too heart but a compliment once and while would be nice 😡 correct me if am being unfair but he doesn't have to carry a five pound baby and go through all the hormonal changes and physical changes that come with it.

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sophie94x

Sophie

I would be going crazy at him lol then I'd ignore him for ages cause I'm stubborn. Next time say oh your friend looks good today or something 😊

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tresea

tresea

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (25 нед.)

I'm the same my husband does give me compliments but find it really hard to talk them even at my finest I felt horrible xx

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tinytinylittleone

Rebecca

thank you @sophie94x I am sad and it does get me down. Just want him to understand what it feels like. It's not very nice. Xx

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tinytinylittleone

Rebecca

That's really good that your husband gives you them @tresea mine gives none. He just calls me a penguin. You should take them seriously :) I know how you must feel I feel the exact same my confidence has dropped way low but you are doing an amazing thing we both are :) xxx

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tresea

tresea

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (25 нед.)

Even before getting pregnant iv had problems with weight issues at my smallest I was 5stone11 managed to get up to 6 and a half stone to get pregnant but no I refuse to weight my self as I'm to scared of going back to that place I don't mind it as much this time as I did with my first baby but even after I had her I was so scared to weight my self incase I got ill agen and really didn't want that with a new born I don't think we should let the way others see us matter as long as your happy and like you said it's an amazing thing where doing and every pound is worth it trust me it's so easy to get to that point I didn't even see it happening until I was in a doctors office being told i had anorexia xx

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tresea

tresea

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (25 нед.)

Sorry to get so deep there but it's so easily done specially when your feeling low @tinytinylittleone xx

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tinytinylittleone

Rebecca

@tresea, I really feel for you ... That must of been a difficult experience for you. I've never been that small. I was 9 stone. I'm probably 11 now. But at 9 stone I was healthy :) no I'm not going to loose the weight while pregnant as it probably all her weight and that wouldn't be healthy. Just wish my husband would see as beautiful rather than big and unattractive :( but your right it don't matter what he thinks and what I think, but I wish the man I love would at least love me and say something nice :)

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robotunicorn

Shona

Give him a good telling off and let him know how it made you feel! You're carrying his baby he should respect you and the changes you are going through to give him a baby!

Before being pregnant I was comfortable with my body. Now I'm really self conscious due to my weight gain and the fact my skin is now terrible. He would look at skinny pretty girls. I told him how upset it made me and I cried! I told him if he wants to look at other women he should be single! And he hasn't done it since and had focused on me and baby! And compliments me so much more and even bought me flowers xx

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tinytinylittleone

Rebecca

@robotunicorn, thank you Hun I will let him know that made me feel like he doesn't see me as pretty anymore. Before pregnant I too was comfortable with my weight, but now I'm really self conscious too and like you my skin... Has gotten really spotty I think due to the hormonal changes.thanks will tell him if he'd rather go out with my friend then he shouldn't be with me. That's so lovely Hun, glad you told him it wasn't on and he has now focused on you and baby more :) maybe I should do the same X

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robotunicorn

Shona

That's okay! Men don't appreciate what we go through. And need a kick up the bum :-) it's hard going from being comfortable to all these changes. And he totally needs to respect you, and think telling him straight will help :) xx

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tresea

tresea

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (25 нед.)

It's after you have the baby that worried me cuz everyone wants to lose the baby weight its national but if your being put down or wanting to be completed witch everyone does some times it can be took to far with out meaning too maybe you should tell him that it hurts your feelings that he can give others complaints and not you xx

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