When you woke up multiple times all night with the newborn, soent the morning till now washing dishes, doing the laundry, putting all of it away,washing then sterilizing the babys bottles and such, setting them out, taking the dog out through out the day, and feeding her on top of feeding, changing, burping, playing with, spending time with the newborn, taking out the trash, cleaning off the counters, and the floors, and your husband just walks in.. lays down.. and goes to sleep without a fucking word, or a look at his son, or you. No thank you. No take a break. Last night he even shouted at me for not wakin up right the second the baby started crying. It did take me a minute, but I got up, though on my defense, I am sick. my throat is sore, I have a sinus infection, but still managed to make me cry and feel like a horrible mother.
What the fuck.
Nice.
taking newborn out
When did you take your newborn out for the first time? What precautions did you take to ensure safety and health?
Probably a cray question to ask, but when did y’all start to wash your newborns clothes and putting them away? Like I’ve been getting clothes since I found out what I was having but I haven’t taken off tags yet or washed anything. I’m 30 weeks. It’s crazy because with my other 3 kids I didn’t really wash a lot of their stuff at first (got lazy) ALSO what laundry detergent did you use if you didn’t use Dreft? Because i saw Pyrex for Baby an didn’t know if anyone tried it??
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I cannot take all this fucking crying!! It is driving me in fucking sane!!!
Literally EVERYTHING I do she cries. Feed her? Cry. Cuddle her? Cry. Rock her? Cry. Bathe her? Cry. Give her the toys? Cry. Gave her Tylenol because maybe she's teething , she cries. Give her something cold for her gums guess what you guys?? She's still freaking crying.
I'm done!
Yep beat down it is! Start banging on shit throwing shit get crazy on his butt make him realize your job is hard just like his