i honestly cant stand when my family members question my money situation. i came to visit my grandma and shes calculating all of my expenses. first she asked how am i payin my babyshower.. like why does it matter ?? the entire family hasnt budged to help pay for it. so im payin for it ALONE. and im planning it my way then she asked why am i wearing victoria secret panties if im not working. and how can i afford them. like WTF. dont worry about my pockets. perfect example of why i distance myself.