@ldsully, he's always getting mad at me for something dumb, always backing up his family and getting mad at me, won't help take care of the baby but just wants to hold and play with him, sometimes he pushes me down emotionally, he never says he loves me or hugs me, always has to involve his mom in everything we talk about or do, etc..
@ldsully, every time I try and talk about how I feel he tells me wrong and he's 100% right, we don't make parenting decisions ourselves he makes them by himself with his mom..
every time I try and talk to someone about the problems I'm having he gets super mad, when I try and stand up for myself or tell others to stop parenting my child he gets mad..
@lilbabyboy16, it sounds like he has some control issues. If he isn't willing to work with you and parent together then something has to change. My best advice for you is to stand up for yourself and for your son. You are MOM, you carried him and delivered him. If you keep standing up for yourself and don't back down, eventually he will reap your depictions and start showing you more love
I'm telling you from past experiences you HAVE to stand up for yourself. He will never respect you if you don't respect yourself. You stand up for yourself and Don't back down and keep doing that I promise you it will change. It will be hard at first but you have to shake him up a little to be more appreciative of you
yeah we are at his parents... he got accepted into school 4 hours away however that's not til next year.. I kept telling him and his brother that we need to find our own place.... but... no he's always making up excuses of not to... @mommarodey the only person who understands me and gets me is his brother... so I talk to him a lot about some of this stuff
@ldsully, before we had our baby he would always leave me home and would never spend time with me and now he's wanting to stay home and says it's not fair that he would be leaving me home by myself with the baby. and yesterday I was craving sushi and he's out with his brothers. his brother text me and said, sushi huh? let's see if your husband is nice and will pick some up for you. when they got home he had to convince my husband and talk him into buying it for me... I told his brother, since my husband won't get me my medication for me I have to get my mom to go get it, and he went in to our room and had a chat with him, his brother comes back out and says, if he doesn't do what you ask him to, you can punch him in the nuts. hahahaha
Lauren·
What makes you think that?
Madison·
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@ldsully, he's always getting mad at me for something dumb, always backing up his family and getting mad at me, won't help take care of the baby but just wants to hold and play with him, sometimes he pushes me down emotionally, he never says he loves me or hugs me, always has to involve his mom in everything we talk about or do, etc..
Madison·
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@ldsully, every time I try and talk about how I feel he tells me wrong and he's 100% right, we don't make parenting decisions ourselves he makes them by himself with his mom..
Madison·
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he knows I'm feeling depressed and what not but I feel like it's this marriage that makes me so depressed
Madison·
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@mommarodey, almost 11 months
Madison·
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every time I try and talk to someone about the problems I'm having he gets super mad, when I try and stand up for myself or tell others to stop parenting my child he gets mad..
Lauren·
@lilbabyboy16, it sounds like he has some control issues. If he isn't willing to work with you and parent together then something has to change. My best advice for you is to stand up for yourself and for your son. You are MOM, you carried him and delivered him. If you keep standing up for yourself and don't back down, eventually he will reap your depictions and start showing you more love
Madison·
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how if I just keep getting in trouble for it?? ugh I just feel like I can't do anything right but patenting.... @ldsully
Lauren·
@lilbabyboy16, if you feel like you can "get in trouble" by your husband you are in an unhealthy relationship
Madison·
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@ldsully, how do I change it?
Lauren·
I'm telling you from past experiences you HAVE to stand up for yourself. He will never respect you if you don't respect yourself. You stand up for yourself and Don't back down and keep doing that I promise you it will change. It will be hard at first but you have to shake him up a little to be more appreciative of you
Madison·
Мама сына-младенца
yeah we are at his parents... he got accepted into school 4 hours away however that's not til next year.. I kept telling him and his brother that we need to find our own place.... but... no he's always making up excuses of not to... @mommarodey the only person who understands me and gets me is his brother... so I talk to him a lot about some of this stuff
Madison·
Мама сына-младенца
@ldsully, before we had our baby he would always leave me home and would never spend time with me and now he's wanting to stay home and says it's not fair that he would be leaving me home by myself with the baby. and yesterday I was craving sushi and he's out with his brothers. his brother text me and said, sushi huh? let's see if your husband is nice and will pick some up for you. when they got home he had to convince my husband and talk him into buying it for me... I told his brother, since my husband won't get me my medication for me I have to get my mom to go get it, and he went in to our room and had a chat with him, his brother comes back out and says, if he doesn't do what you ask him to, you can punch him in the nuts. hahahaha