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Jasmine
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Has anyone ever had to break up with a live-in boyfriend that you loved but didn't seem compatible with? Idk if I wanna…

Has anyone ever had to break up with a live-in boyfriend that you loved but didn't seem compatible with? Idk if I wanna break up yet but I've been thinking about it lately.

It's just that we have different lifestyles. He likes to stay up with his homeboys and kick it all night while I just wanna come home from work to an empty house and relax. Everyday he tells me no one will be there when I get home but when I get there someone is always there. Two of his friends in particular sleep on our couch most nights but they don't pay rent or nothing! I've talked to him numerous times about it but nothing ever changes for more than a day or two.

There's also other stuff like I'm paying the majority part of the bills including HIS phone bill when he runs out of money. Hes 21 and doesn't have a license and doesn't seemto be in a hurry to get it. He doesn't have any drive to better himself it seems. Also he wants to control everything even stuff he wouldn't have if it wasn't for me.

The main thing holding me back is he's known my skn since he was one month old and I don't wanna take him away from him but idk how much more I can take. What should I do and how should I go about doing it? We live together..

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mechelle444

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I say just because y'all live together doesn't mean y'all have to be together. If you can find you some where else to go by all means do so especially if you can afford and it might actually help you save. I know you're son is involved but you can't be unhappy and be with someone he can still see your son if you allow if y'all can be friends if you want or just don't bring anyone else around your son unless you know that person will work out for you so your son won't get attached and then you would be feel bad. (I'm not saying that in a mean way I hope you don't take it that way).

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