Has anyone ever had to break up with a live-in boyfriend that you loved but didn't seem compatible with? Idk if I wanna break up yet but I've been thinking about it lately.
It's just that we have different lifestyles. He likes to stay up with his homeboys and kick it all night while I just wanna come home from work to an empty house and relax. Everyday he tells me no one will be there when I get home but when I get there someone is always there. Two of his friends in particular sleep on our couch most nights but they don't pay rent or nothing! I've talked to him numerous times about it but nothing ever changes for more than a day or two.
There's also other stuff like I'm paying the majority part of the bills including HIS phone bill when he runs out of money. Hes 21 and doesn't have a license and doesn't seemto be in a hurry to get it. He doesn't have any drive to better himself it seems. Also he wants to control everything even stuff he wouldn't have if it wasn't for me.
The main thing holding me back is he's known my skn since he was one month old and I don't wanna take him away from him but idk how much more I can take. What should I do and how should I go about doing it? We live together..
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I would explain to him you're done taking care of him and him taking advantage of you. And about people always being at your house. I broke up with a live-in boyfriend before and he just slept on the couch until I moved out. He helped me pack and we were on good terms. Just said it wasn't working anymore. It was hard the first night but we just watched tv and then went to bed in separate rooms until I moved back home. Hopefully yours can be peaceful as well !
I'd tell him how you feel you can't have somebody hold you back and how you don't like how he has no drive or goals ,I've done it before and felt awesome sadly