ok so please tell me if im just being a pregnant bitch. ok so I have not been able to make it to any of my nieces recitals due to work in the past. She has another one tomorrow and I can go bc we only do half days at my job Im at now. my sister calls me last night and says she talked to her therapist and she said my dad should be allowed to go. my father is bipolar and yes he is on his meds but he has been many a times before. my husband sons and I will not have any kind of relationship w him. he has been to all of her recitals. why cant we have this one? my husband and my father hate eachother and we agreed as a family he will not have a relationship with our children. but now my niece is so upset at me bc we arnt going. she doesnt understand and I look like the bad guy.... im so upset....