Is it selfish of me to not want my mother in law and sisters in laws at the hospital when I have the…
Is it selfish of me to not want my mother in law and sisters in laws at the hospital when I have the baby? like I thought I would change my mind throughout my pregnancy but nope nothing changed. I hate them all with a passion and I know its wrong and very mean to say that but its true.
First off I've gotten kicked out multiple times because his stupid a** sisters, his mom basically told me this isnt his baby and that this baby will be kicked to the curb and our first daughter is her "ONLY" granddaughter. and that this baby is nothing to her. then his sister had said she will punch me in my stomach and not even care if I'm pregnant or not. his other sister is just a snotty little troll! since she's putting her baby up for adoption, she's been trying to make their mom fight with me and him constantly!-.- like its not my fault you can't keep your legs closed got pregnant by another dude other than your kids dad!!!!-.- they're over here bitching about us because we got an a/c first off she don't live her because she doesn't want anyone to know she's pregnant and giving the baby up for adoption, even when she comes back its not like she's going to keep her door open to her room when she has her a/c on plus when our daughter was only a newborn-1yrs old both his sisters kept their doors closed with their a/c's on now that one of his sisters their a/c no longer works she wants to bitch. -.- like no y'all aren't the ones who's going to have a tiny baby in the fkn heat! I am not y'all! then his mom is telling us that's why bad shit happens to us because we're "greedy" but yet her daughters are greedy as fuck! and I'm like okay that's why one of them is putting her baby up for adoption for her mistake, and the other has a CPS case on her but still fkn drinking smoking doing drugs!-.- but as for me and her son we're paying the water bill, paying our car off, our phone bill and plus more! at least you didn't support our kids like how she's doing with her girls. both me and her son are working and buying the shit we have in our room she didn't buy us jack shit! I'm so sorry ladies rant over....😢
Kimberly·
Ewwww they sound awful! Just don't tell them when you have baby
Kayla M.·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)
I'm not and I could have the baby any day now due to such a rapid weight gain and high blood pressure and I'm not schedule to have a c section til July 12th so if I have the baby sooner I'm not going to tell anyone no one deserves shit!!!
Taiylor·
В ожидании первенца
No I definitely don't think you're wrong for that! The way I see it, this is your baby and you're going to deliver it and you need to be as comfortable as possible when that time comes! They would probably just stress you out if they were there. Besides, if they wanna treat you badly this whole pregnancy they don't deserve to be there
Kimberly·
Don't let the negative crap bug you tho. You don't deserve to be treated like that. Why hasn't your man stepped up and put them in their place?!?
Kayla M.·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)
like its not even just them I don't even want my family there. not even friends so no one should feel some type of way. but they've treated me so badly and I'm still a horrible person because I'm starting to speak up for myself. like even when I come home with the baby I don't want anyone asking to hold the baby or asking to come see me. like all they do is tell me ugly shit "well next time y'all would use protection" or "that's your fault if your getting cramps no one told u to get pregnant again" like fuck dude but your babying your daughter who is the most disrespectful snotty little bitch there is! but I guess that's how its always going to be.
Kayla M.·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)
he has and they still with their shit they don't care. he can tell them shit all her wants and they still make it a one way street even though its a 2 way street.
Lauren🖤·
I'm only having my husband my mom my sister/nephew if they want/can (my nephew is only 5 months) and my dad behind the curtain. No one else.
Kayla M.·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)
I'm having a c section so only my husband will be there in the room that's only allowed. but I mean at the hospital in general
Jourdyn·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (38 нед.)
Nope! Not wrong at all. I wouldn't even call. If your husband wants to send them a pic that's fine... They're his family but id tell them their presence isn't requested or required.
Kayla M.·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)
like they shouldn't feel bad I don't even want my family there. the only person who would be there will be one of my close friends to watch my daughter while I have my c section which will only be 30min-1hr tops. but I keep getting told I might have to have her early so if I do then that's better for us BECAUSE then I'm not telling anyone nor am I going to let my fiance tell anyone besides work of course/: but I just don't want anyone there at all.
kayla Hernandez·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
you have that right and if someone shows up you can let the nurses know you don't want to be bothered by anyone and they will tell people to leave or you need rest and for them not to bother you and stuff like that I would plan to move out and get your own place to be honest love
Kayla M.·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)
that's what we're trying to do. we had a major set back which caused us not being able to move out when we planned on to.