okay :) @shelby.raye

@_kmoss.madisonsmommy_, I'm going to message you.

I relate to this so much!! my 18 year old sister has tried so hard to get pregnant since she found out i was. the multiple men she's been such refuse to let her "trap" them so they say. she fakes pregnancies all the time and has a miscarriage a week or so after she tells my parents she's probably pregnant. I called her out in front of all her friends, her boyfriend, and her ex all at the same time. I didn't feel like I was in the wrong, seeing it as she has said numerous times that she's jealous of my husband and I and she didn't thinking deserved a baby. I was gonna be an unfit mother, and that I didn't know who the father of my child was. when she said that, I wanted to kick her ass but I was 6 months pregnant and I didn't wanna lose my baby. so it is definitely okay to be upset with your sister. and if it will make you feel better, you should ask her why she's trying to one up you. and take your special day from you. I would, but I guess that's bc I'm a natural bitch, and I don't care to hurt feelings bc nobody cares to hurt mine. but sweetie, take care of yourself and enjoy your babies. and regardless of how you feed them, as long as they get fed, right? that's how I see it. you can message me if you need to vent :)

@shelby.raye I stopped breastfeeding my second day because she started refusing my nipple and would scream and scream until I gave her formula. don't let her get to you!

@ngujen, yes she has said it several time she was like well I fed my baby for 6 months before I stopped (she stopped for selfish reasons such as alcohol and weed) but is all but I think I'll do a year this time and since we're broke and I know you want your baby to breastfeed I'll feed her and you give me all her out grown stuff...... I was like it's OK were working with many consultants to make sure I will be able to breastfeed my own child.but I honestly just think she says these thing to get under my skin.

I'm on the fact that she said she was going to breastfeed your baby..

girl, my aunt did the same thing with my mom. my cousin is ten days younger than me, then my sister is a month older than her second child (another cousin). my mom told her she was pregnant again (but wasn't) just to see if my aunt would get pregnant for the third time. guess who got pregnant within the next month...? yep, my aunt

I appreciate all the support. I'm so happy (well not happy but yall know what I mean) I'm not the only one going through this my self.

and the funny thing is we just found out that my sister in law is pregnant which is great we didn't think she could have kids, but my sister of all ppl was like "OMG, THAT B*TCH! HOW COULD SHE? YOUR PREGNANT AND SHE IS TRYING TO STEAL THIS MOMENT FROM YOU".......... I looked her dead in the eyes and said " this is the kettle calling the pot black....... she didn't get it but how could she have the nerve to say that?m

Oh girl.... See I have a sister who has been in competition with me since the day my mom found out she was pregnant with me. She has always tried to outdo me one way or the other. Getting pregnant when I do and "miscarrying" when I do. This piece of shit (sorry for language) is always wanting attention. To the point that she is sucking my grandparents dry of any and all finances. Threatening to call the cops on MY dad (her step dad) about the phone she gave our little sister when she has beef with ME. When she gets bored, one of her kids gets cancer. And I'm not even joking. All three of her kids have been through all kinds of life altering illnesses in their lives and now one of them has cancer and the sad thing is, I don't believe her. She's a compulsive liar and will do absolutely anything and everything for attention. She was once laughing at how she was married, had a boyfriend, but might have been pregnancy with a third guys kid.

Wooooooow! First of all, bravo to you for not having any ill will. I'd have called my sister out a long time ago. I actually did when we were pregnant at the same time. She is 8 years older than me and tried very hard to get pregnant when she found out I was. Unfortunately she lost that baby and several after that. So I felt like a creep. I don't think you're being selfish at all. I would talk to her and not hold back any feeling that could build up.

it's just hard to believe that it a coincidence for the 2nd time exactly 5 years down the rd. ( and all the stuff that she say to me just infuriates me... that why I had to share some of the back story the whole back story well is actually a lot crazier including dancing, a lot of men in the picture and all of a sudden it's "I guess God just wanted me to have a second chance.....at the same time as you, how funny right!" and it's every time I see her or she comes around. sorry for the rant it been building for 20 weeks now. 😕

Haha no! I am in the same boat. My sister in law is the exact same! We broke the news that im pregnant and then all of a sudden she's trying now too. Mind you she and her bf are fighting 99% of the time and she has no job or house atm. While we have all our stuff together. They just want the attention too no matter what it is.

Girl, your not being selfish at all.! I would be so mad as well.! And I wouldn't say your jealous , idk how to explain what I would call it.!