It really bothers me how some of my "friends" will text me, saying they can't wait to meet my baby.…
It really bothers me how some of my "friends" will text me, saying they can't wait to meet my baby. Y'all weren't here for me AT ALL through out my entire pregnancy. Like wtf. This bothers me so much. Is it just me?
Celena·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
No. I got so many promises of ppl saying they were coming to the baby shower and nobody showed. Except for 1 friend. Ppl are just so fake now.
Emily Parr·
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My friends are the same exact way!
Tay·
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@celenarenee, the exact same thing happened to me. Out of all the people I invited, only one person showed up...and it was my SO's friends wife. I've been blown off multiple times by these so called friends this pregnancy.
Tay·
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@emilyw_16, it's so shitty, and hurtful.
Tiara✨·
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@celenarenee, I'm so scared of that especially because I moved to a different state and worried no one will want to travel
Rai Wilson·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
i had one friend tell she doesn't talk to me like she used to because I am pregnant I cant relate anymore. so she has nothing to talk to me about. shes also the same one calling herself god mommy etc... funny thing is shes pregnant now.. & she comes to me with questions
Tay·
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@mommyrai, that's so frustrating😑. Doesn't sound like she even tried.
Celena·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
@lumbeemama, yea I've gotten calls of ppl saying they were bringing stuff to my house and asked if I'll be home. I'm always home and nobody never showed and I'm not about to beg or bug anybody to come see me
Rai Wilson·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
she didn't & i asked her why she doesn't & thats what she told me. hurt my feelings but its cool.. ill be the bigger person
Tay·
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@celenarenee, yeah I've heard that too. I mean I know other people have their own lives, but don't say you're gonna be there for us and then just ghost out.
Celena·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
@belly1996, not everybody will do that. I mean I feel like if anybody really cared they would show it. All relationships take effort. I've had the and friends since middle school and now we're all 22 or 23 years old. Ppl change I just can't deal with the fakeness
Tay·
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@mommyrai, yeah that's all you really can do:( it's still not fair though.
Celena·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
@lumbeemama, yes that's exactly what I'm saying. Like we all have kids now and jobs and stuff but it's no reason to lie. If your gonna do something just do it
Tay·
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Exactly @celenarenee it's like they may have good intentions, but if it's not gonna work just tell us. My friends will straight not answer calls or texts after making plans to come see me or hang out.
Stephanie·
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Same here. Even my mom has been trying to dictate how we raise our child but I've had to beg her to talk to me all throughout my pregnancy.