opinions needed ladies !!!
my mom wants to help when we have new baby this month by taking the two older kids for two weeks so that I have a little recovery time and can get adjusted ....I know the older kids need get adjusted to new baby though to! I feel like I'm cheating if we let this happen, my husband got a job offer a couple years ago and we moved about two hours from my family all I have is a few from his side out here and I think it would be nice if we had those first two weeks alone with baby and then I second guess myself like no Stacy that's cheating ... any thoughts would be appreciated !
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That is definitely a blessing to have her offer, with my second and third it was especially necessary to have family take care of my older kids not only while I recovered from my c section, but just to get used to having a new baby.
It depends on how you feel. If you feel like you can handle everyone after a week, take them back. If not, no shame in letting them stay another week.
Totally up to you. Maybe a week and then she can come to the house and help the second week?
thanks ladies @babes101116 @kreese88 and @arivera64 lol that's awesome of her to do ! I'm having a cesarean as well and getting tubes tied so Dr said I'm going be more than sore for a couple weeks with two major stomach surgeries do you ladies think two weeks is to long maybe I should only let them stay for a week? its nothing against my mom she's great and loves the kids to death and she is just trying to help as much as can even though she lives two hours away ! I just am freaking out ! lol
Do it. You need that time. My mother in law took my oldest for a few days when my second was born especially because of my cesarean. And when the 3rd was born, she took the older 2. Lol When i have this one, she'll take all 3!
I always wanted my children to be atleast a year apart .. My kids are 17 months apart .. but I never knew how hard it would be trying to get my son to adjust to having a baby around.. he's not use to being around other kids because we don't have small kids his age in our family ... 😞 any advice on trying to get him to adjust to having a little sister would help.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I don’t think we would have been able to move if I didn’t have my stay at home job, we would still be in a neighborhood with our house getting broken into. I’m so thankful and blessed to have found a legit home job so my kids don’t have to go to day care, counting my blessings daily
Snapchat? Fb? I need new mommy friends. None of my friends have kids & we've disconnected 😑 sucks at times
So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like wtf. I was like you would seriously cheat on your pregnant wife?! I also told him that if he cheats on me I will NOT hesitate to file for divorce. I don't need my girls growing up thinking that cheating is ok. This was after we tried to have sex but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. When it comes to sex my husband only thinks about himself lately!!!! 😒😒😒😒
@arivera64, that's a good idea @babes101116 yeah I could start slow with the first week lol and @surprise4 thanks for pointing out the blessing I guess I was feeling guilty but it seems I'm not the only mom ever to do this ! and that makes me feel so much better ladies thanks again for your input!