So I'm a little upset right now. when my husband gets a bonus we always have a date night. he's been…
So I'm a little upset right now. when my husband gets a bonus we always have a date night. he's been talking about taking me and our daughter out for a while now. well then he invites his friend out for his birthday. I understand that his friend wants to hang out but I literally have not left the house since March except to see my mom and get groceries. so our plans are gone for tomorrow. then the 18th we were supposed to be celebrating mothers day and fathers day together since he could Not do anything for my first official mothers day. well we have no one to watch our daughter so naturally she has to come with us. he picks ziplining. I will be 22 weeks pregnant. I can't zipline. the state park isn't exactly baby friendly either. no changing areas, no where for me to put our daughter for a nap, no tables for me to sit at, nothing. so yet again, nothing for me. I mean I even told him just let me buy a pair of shorts and get my hair cut that's all I asked for...now he's got all these plans and has the money pretty much spent already and I get nothing out of any of it. I'm seriously about in tears. we even canceled the gender reveal so he can go ziplining instead.
Kimberly ·
At that point you need to flat out tell him how you feel so he knows how F'd up that is. Don't get mad with him, but let him know that you're feeling completely left out and that you need "us" time and that it was selfish of him to cancel the gender reveal that would benefit both of you just so he could go zip lining.
missing268user·
all I know to say is wow.. he needs a reality check.
Katie Nelson·
Мама дочки-младенца
@kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom, it's something he's been talking about wanting to do for a long time. So when the state park opened up a zipline I wanted him to go and let that be our fathers day gift to him...the only day He can though is the day the gender reveal was so that's not entirely his fault there. but as for cancelling our date night to go hang with his friend that hurt me because I had a double date planned with a friend of mine I hadn't seen in almost 2 years and her fiance that I'd be meeting for the first time, then he pops up this morning with oh well it's his birthday we always go out for his birthday. his friend doesn't like me and his friends mom flat out told my husband that being with me, marrying me, was the biggest mistake he would ever make in his life. So I never feel welcome around them and I've told him that repeatedly which is why he leaves when they hang out. my closest friend lives in Tennessee the other in NY so I never get to go hang out with friends yet when the opportunity presents itself for me to hang out with someone finally, can't happen. I hate it I really do. I mean he brought the guy out on every single one of our dates....our night out t celebrate my birthday and us finding out we were pregnant with our daughter, he brought him with us...the guy always leaves our house a mess and expects me to clean up after him when he actually does stay and even then I lock me and my daughter in our bedroom...I've talked to my husband about it but none of it helps. @hermommy
danni·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Omg girl! seems like you married 2 guys I'm sorry this is happening! date night is a date wth is his friend n mom going for?
Katie Nelson·
Мама дочки-младенца
Just his friend @mygiftof2016 his friends mom just hates me for some reason.
danni·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Oh I miss read but still... y'all need a date not a 3way! it's important to have alone time!
Katie Nelson·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mygiftof2016, We never get it unless he wants to get some. sorry TMI but every time we have plans he always invites him along or cancels the plans. but expects me to be fine with having sex when I can't even spend time with just him...
danni·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Oh boy! my husband does the same (with sex) we have been together 4x the whole pregnancy! I'm raging hormones and he's having issues because I'm pregnant! not fair at all especially since I'm the over 6 years we been together never have I denied him and we were rabbits before and now I'm left to handle myself! bs! he's asking for a separation these days I swear but the few times we have it's cuz he wanted to but not on my terf! omg makes me so upset! sorry to go off lol