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Danielle Amelia Thomson
Danielle Amelia Thomson
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Ladies? Make sure your men are committed to helping you before the baby comes. Mine is claiming hes going to go to bed…

Ladies? Make sure your men are committed to helping you before the baby comes. Mine is claiming hes going to go to bed as soon as he gets off work which they are giving him HALF DAYS ALL WEEK AND NEXT WEEK, so that he can help me at home. Hes going to sleep with that freetime instead. Im exaughsted.. Dont I get to have a break? soldier or not, if you cant hold a home together, you are nothing of a man.

I have to clean the house, up and down, constwntly pick things up, put them away, wash things, sterilize, pump milk, feed him, and repeat, as well as changing dressing and burping and holding him and skin to skin contact time.. That and the dog needs fed and taken out and taken care of ontop of cooking dinner and even finding time to make myself food, or shower, or sleep so I dont drop. I guess that doesnt matter.

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withlovedkj

Deon 🌻www.individualisticbeauty.com

Мама четверых детей

Don't tolerate it. I know it's easier said than done but make him a list of things that he's capable of doing and give it to him. for example, cooking,washing bottles, washing clothes and taking the dog out. If he refuses do what you can and start making demands that he pick up your slack. Having a newborn is already physically hard on your body you don't need the added stress. Also, reach out to friends and family if they are supportive. Maybe they can come to your house and watch the baby while you sleep. @micahsmama

micahsmama

Danielle Amelia Thomson

Мама сына-младенца

Im like so dead rn.. Lol

raisinghazel

Judine

В ожидании первенца

I told my boyfriend my plan for when baby arrives and that was to SLEEP!! he was totally fine with that. we live with my mom her husband and my lil sister so I don't have the responsibility of cleaning up a whole house just the downstairs area we stay at. + I'll have help with baby when ever someone is home. sorry you have to go through that it's saddening but that's why they call mom's super mom

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.