Ladies? Make sure your men are committed to helping you before the baby comes. Mine is claiming hes going to go to bed as soon as he gets off work which they are giving him HALF DAYS ALL WEEK AND NEXT WEEK, so that he can help me at home. Hes going to sleep with that freetime instead. Im exaughsted.. Dont I get to have a break? soldier or not, if you cant hold a home together, you are nothing of a man.
I have to clean the house, up and down, constwntly pick things up, put them away, wash things, sterilize, pump milk, feed him, and repeat, as well as changing dressing and burping and holding him and skin to skin contact time.. That and the dog needs fed and taken out and taken care of ontop of cooking dinner and even finding time to make myself food, or shower, or sleep so I dont drop. I guess that doesnt matter.
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I told my boyfriend my plan for when baby arrives and that was to SLEEP!! he was totally fine with that. we live with my mom her husband and my lil sister so I don't have the responsibility of cleaning up a whole house just the downstairs area we stay at. + I'll have help with baby when ever someone is home. sorry you have to go through that it's saddening but that's why they call mom's super mom
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Raptor is doing GREAT!! He is off of everything (as you can see :)) except for a feeding tube and an IV!! I got discharged today so I could get to my baby boy! I got to hold him skin to skin and it was the most amazing thing I have ever experienced.
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
In California August 11 classes would start are you going to let your kids go to school????my 5 year old is going to kindergarten I dont know if I get to choose to study at home or he has to go to school 🤔
My little guy! So in love!! I love doing skin to skin with him and he loves sleeping on his mommy! Wouldn't trade this for the world! ❤💙👣👑
Don't tolerate it. I know it's easier said than done but make him a list of things that he's capable of doing and give it to him. for example, cooking,washing bottles, washing clothes and taking the dog out. If he refuses do what you can and start making demands that he pick up your slack. Having a newborn is already physically hard on your body you don't need the added stress. Also, reach out to friends and family if they are supportive. Maybe they can come to your house and watch the baby while you sleep. @micahsmama