Ladies? Make sure your men are committed to helping you before the baby comes. Mine is claiming hes going to go to bed as soon as he gets off work which they are giving him HALF DAYS ALL WEEK AND NEXT WEEK, so that he can help me at home. Hes going to sleep with that freetime instead. Im exaughsted.. Dont I get to have a break? soldier or not, if you cant hold a home together, you are nothing of a man.
I have to clean the house, up and down, constwntly pick things up, put them away, wash things, sterilize, pump milk, feed him, and repeat, as well as changing dressing and burping and holding him and skin to skin contact time.. That and the dog needs fed and taken out and taken care of ontop of cooking dinner and even finding time to make myself food, or shower, or sleep so I dont drop. I guess that doesnt matter.
I told my boyfriend my plan for when baby arrives and that was to SLEEP!! he was totally fine with that. we live with my mom her husband and my lil sister so I don't have the responsibility of cleaning up a whole house just the downstairs area we stay at. + I'll have help with baby when ever someone is home. sorry you have to go through that it's saddening but that's why they call mom's super mom
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...

#momlifegroups
Moms,
Our new group this week is:
Cooking Moms | @alaina.marie
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#momlifegroups
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Postpartum Depression @Heera
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Miscarriage and Loss @bri92
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NICU @scottiesmommy
Domestic Violence @smilingwithmyawesome4kids
Kids with special needs @smilingwithmyawesome4kids
Car sear safety @santistevanmommie
Babywea...

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Don't tolerate it. I know it's easier said than done but make him a list of things that he's capable of doing and give it to him. for example, cooking,washing bottles, washing clothes and taking the dog out. If he refuses do what you can and start making demands that he pick up your slack. Having a newborn is already physically hard on your body you don't need the added stress. Also, reach out to friends and family if they are supportive. Maybe they can come to your house and watch the baby while you sleep. @micahsmama