Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her own when she is ready to come ! As much as I am anxious to meet her and have her home with me, those last few weeks of brain development and lung maturation means so much more to me! I'm hoping and praying that things turn around, and I don't have to get induced. I'm surely going to talk to my doctor about it Thursday when I go back.
i hope i have my baby this week...or in a couple of years...if he wants to come out...it's whatever he wants 😓
Anyone else's doctor trying to induce you around 38 to 39 weeks? Mine is. And idk how to feel. Mixed emotions cause I want him to come when he wants but she's afraid he will be huge? She said I'm measuring around 40 weeks already. I'll be 38 weeks on Friday. Need help. Has this happend to you?? Did your baby come out healthy?? I want to deliver him vaginally though.
Bianca·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Omg!! Lol
Amanda Fikes·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@bianca_rose,
Amanda Fikes·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Lol the doctor said if I would have went another month he would have been close to twelve pounds. I was like "thank goodness for small miracles!"
Bianca·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Oh wow, that sounds pretty scary. Sucks you can't get your way but I guess the benefits might outweigh the risks. Side note, and 8lb 6oz preemie??!! I can't believe that lol
Amanda Fikes·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@number321, thanks!
Amanda Fikes·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@bianca_rose, if the IUD is not imbedded like they think then it might puncture the sack or migrate up causing the placenta to rip off the uterine wall. The danger level to the baby increases once I hit 38 weeks. I grow big babies. My smallest one was 8 pounds 3.5 ounces and biggest was 10 pounds 9 ounces. I had a premie born just over a month early and he was 8 pounds 6 ounces. As my pregnancy progresses they are worried he is going to get too big and the IUD could become an issue.
aja·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
ok, good luck and congratulations
Amanda Fikes·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@number321, it's too close to the baby. With it being so close in the beginning (well 16 weeks when I found out) they didn't want to risk rupturing the sack. I didn't want more kids (and this might sound horrible) but I was like "rip it out. If the baby dies it wasn't meant to be. I'd it survives then it's meant to be." No doctor wanted to remove it and have the babies death on their hands. Yesterday the doctor reviewed all of my ultrasounds (one every two weeks) and said he thinks it's stuck in the muscle and that's how I got pregnant. He scheduled outpatient surgery to have it removed on July 5th which is two weeks after he is planning on inducing me.
Bianca·
Мама двоих (младенец)
What's the danger of waiting to go full term? Because if it doesn't seem to be necessary I'd refuse
aja·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
wow u got pregnant with the iud. why didn't they remove it, isn't it still releasing those hormones