Thank you @kelseys. I am really hurt

I wouldn't think so. I haven't gone to any of my family events because all they have done is bad mouth my husband and I, and I wouldn't plan on inviting them to one of my events. remember, just because you're related doesn't mean you're family, family are those who are loyal to you.

@kelseys, do you think it's wrong if my husband doesn't go to the wedding? His sister has done nothing but bad mouth me.

most definitely do that! everything was fine with my mil and sil till I got pregnant with my second, and they started a bunch of drama. I live with them(not because I want to, but my husband got into something and I have to wait till October to move out of here) and once I'm out of here, I don't plan on coming around or bringing my kids because of the way I was treated for no reason.

@kobena, mine is a spoiled brat! She is getting married in July I just RSVPED and said we aren't going.

my sister in law is the worst! she is so controlling!

I adore my husband's family but hate being around them..

@kelseys, @darianweaver my in laws have said nothing but hurtful things about me. My sister in law included. So I feel like we should cut them off completely

I cannot for the life of me stand my MIL. for the most part I ignore her, but every little thing she does adds up till I can't hold it any longer and I usually tell her what's on my mind or wtf she's doing every few months.

I cannot stand my in laws. I can tolerate my father in law when he's by himself but my mother in law is ridiculous. She wants to be in control of my husband like he's still a child and I won't allow it. I didn't marry her. There aren't 3 people in my marriage. She is used to getting her way because she's loud, opinionated and a bully, and nobody ever goes against her. Well I do, and she hates that. She thinks she's got ownership over my unborn son. Wrong. So when I have to be around them, I am as civil as I can be. I make a concious effort to try to be nice and respectful until my husband is disrespected, or I am disrespected. Then I get an attitude. I wish they'd move out of state so when visits happened, it wouldn't be so difficult to see them.

definitely do, i just ignore them most of the time and accept them best i can for my husband and he does the same

Nope. I absolutely love my in laws lol but at first I couldn't stand them