Ok here's my dilemma. My mom is currently living with me. She is an artist who moved from Maui to California to be…
Ok here's my dilemma. My mom is currently living with me. She is an artist who moved from Maui to California to be closer to my twin sister and myself. Now that I'm expecting we need to get a larger house. My twin also lives with my boyfriend and myself and my boyfriend has a precious 9 year old daughter from a previous marriage. We have all been looking for bigger places except my mom. My sister was going to move out on her own but in all honesty she hasn't gotten her raise her from her job and I really enjoy her company and she's a huge help especially when I have his daughter on the weekends. My mom on the other hand has refused to get a "real job" and is always stressing me out about $ because she lives off of paintings that may or may not sell. For the past two months she has been lazy as hell wondering around the house texting her boyfriend and half ass painting. Recently she has been "over drinking" and a complete pain in my ass. I had a girlfriend over the other evening and they were all enjoying some wine and I was making dinner and my mom just kept pouring herself the wine. The conversation turned to politics and my mom got all bible bashing and wth ever and my friend is very open and loving to all cultures and religions but for some drunk reason my mom just kept going off on different cultures and political views. It was very embarrassing! Thank god my friend is a close friend and didn't take offense to it but I was super upset over it. I've told my mom countless times that she should at least get a part-time job to cover bills but she is in lala land and thinks she can just live off her paintings while she is seriously not even doing one a day let alone in any galleries yet and she's been here since December. I don't want to kick my mom out and be "that daughter" but she is disrupting my family situation and my boyfriend came to me yesterday and told me he went to the park for an hour or two on his day off just to be away from her and the house....that tore me apart because he is absolutely an amazing man and I don't feel like he should have to go somewhere just to "escape."
Kimberly
@shelbydoll101, I totally agree and I've kinda tried to talk to her but she gets super defensive. I was sposta go to Reno with her today for an appointment but I grabbed a shift at work instead and just told her I got called in. I know it's wrong but I really didn't want to be stuck with her all day while I'm still having these feelings and I'm upset with her. I almost want to kick her out and tell her tough luck. I just decided to avoid the situation and go make $ instead. I'm hoping the two hour drive there and back she will do some thinking. She's always been like this even when I was little I have this awful anxiety over $ because when I was younger we never had any and I grew up seeing her stress out over bills yet just clean houses instead of going out and getting a real income. I resent her for that.
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