People are so quick to say they can't afford babies AFTER they are pregnant. Honestly I wonder why…
People are so quick to say they can't afford babies AFTER they are pregnant. Honestly I wonder why that wasn't thought about before..I'm a federal employee and my husband is in the military. We have 1 7 year old daughter. We knew it would be a change financially when we got pregnant so we prepared for it.. But Lord I wonder about those will be having babies soon with no plan..
Heather·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
Not all pregnancies are planned...
Eryka·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (29 нед.)
I never said they were. But the ones I'm talking about aren't planned or prevented either... @mommagotbump16
Heather·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
You know that for sure? Just asking. I've gotten some comments this pregnancy similar to yours, even though we *were* trying to prevent, but they made assumptions before finding out.
Eryka·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (29 нед.)
I know from what the mom says..especially if I know them personally. I wouldn't say it if I didn't know. @mommagotbump16 Don't take it personal. I don't know you or your situation.
Heather·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
@landuhzluv, ok then. Sorry, but when you don't include the full story, it sounds pretty judgmental. Lol I wasn't hon, I was just using myself as an example.
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (23 нед.)
Preachhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh !!!!! Yes everyone has a story. But if you knew you didn't want or couldn't afford a kid you should've protected yourself better. And if you keep the baby you should be grinding and hustling to get it together so your baby doesn't have to struggle. Once you get a positive from a pregnancy you should always start planning!
Eryka·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (29 нед.)
@amaperalta03, Indeed. I agree. As planned as my baby was, I still don't know EVERYTHING about how we'll make it work. But I'm working on it bit by bit. I didn't mean to make it sound judgmental but I'm not going to make things sound pretty so ppl don't get in their feelings. If it upset you to read it...guess what? I don't pay you to read or like my posts so keep it moving lol