
Is this too harsh? I told my mom multiple times my child isn't staying with her or at her house. Her house is not safe, and it's dirty, plus she smokes. Her dogs aren't trained at all and jumped on people right when you walk through the door, which the dog is like 90 pounds, they poop n pee in the house, and she doesn't clean, you walk barefoot and your feet are black. Plus she abused me and let me get molested, and my sister is unstable right now. So I have my reasons and I keep trying to tell her but she's not getting it ! 😔
The truth is the truth, I don't think you were being mean at all. There's no need to sugar coat.
@alexzandriar, You was a little mean an straight forward that's good but I feel little bad cause she seems excited about being a grandma but I'm sure you have your reasons
I think you were very nice and polite about it. If she keeps asking, try to give her those exact facts that you've given us. You're doing the right thing by not allowing your daughter to be in that environment. @alexzandriar
You do what you feel is right! I'm going through a similar situation. The only thing I want for my child is to have a childhood they don't have to recover from. Sounds like you're on the right track! 💜💜💜💜
Always protect your children 💕