Having to depend on people is hard. Since becoming pregnant I've had to move home with my mother and hear how I don't do enough. I can't work due to my hyperemesis and diabetes so any money that I get I put it towards the house. When I get my food stamps I tell her to get whatever she wants she eats it in less than a week and starts to complain again. As much as I love my son I'm seriously thinking about putting him up for adoption. This has been such a hard and stressful journey for me so I can only imagine how much more crazier it will be when he gets here. I want to protect him from so much but I just don't know if I have the strength to do this. I'm praying for guidance.
you do have the strength. after baby is born you can go to work, or go to school to better your life.
I'm so grateful for you all @babyolive @babykamya2016 @mimi602 @jujukiss @yady @msvanessa27
I'm sorry to hear you're going through such a hard time 😔 i can only imagine how you must feel. But don't give up now! Once baby is here you'll be able to go to work and provide for the two of you. You don't want to make a hasty decision you'll later regret. There's nothing like that mom/baby bond. It's a beautiful experience. Your baby will bring joy and love into your life. And might even bring your family closer together. Praying for you!
U do have the strength God wouldn't put u in this situation if he didn't think u did. I'm not going to lie taking care of a baby ain't easy but what in life really is. . At the same time I understand how u feel cuz Its hard sometimes but I just pray God will continue to guide and show u that he choose u to be a mother for a reason. He wouldn't bring u this far to leave u@torie_mspruitt
I'm in the same boat momma
myle and my SO just broke up and I'm back with my mom and I already have a two year old and due any day now with my son. I have no money at all and my mom is getting ready to move like end of July into a smaller place for her and my step dad so after I have my son I pretty much have to go back to work right away so I can save for the next month to get a place. its defiantly going to be hard but we an do it. we are woman we are strong. things happen and we get back up. Give it to God let him take care of it. that's what I'm tryna get into my mind now as well. I'm praying for you momma 😘
omg I feel so sorry for you if that's how you honestly feel. I had to move back with my mom also. I wasn't able to complete my task without putting baby at risk and we couldn't afford our rent without me working. BD also moved in but he's working so we don't feel like a burden. we also go to yard sales so everything we have gotten for baby has been extremely cheap.most items are less than a dollar type of cheap. you've made it this far mama don't give up now. even if you can't provide for baby now you will be able to when you start working again. this is just a temporary problem don't make decisions based on your current situation because it can and will get better. I'm sure you'll be a great mom 🤗🤗
You will be ok keep your baby he will give you strength I hope & pray things get better for you 🙏🏼
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you ...
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
@kiml7613, I have my career. I'm a respiratory therapist but due to being sick I haven't been able to work. After he's born though I will be back to saving lives. Thanks for the encouragement.