Not to be rude but it's kinda humorous seeing these soon to be moms with all kinds of decisions made on how they are going to birth, or raise their new baby... Odds are once you have the baby none of that is gonna really happen. You do what is best in the moment for you and your baby. Almost everything I planned didn't happen!
It's not like you can plan on having a baby without a problem like colic like my son for example.. You can say you aren't going to bottle feed or co sleep and act like the perfect mother but in reality you're going to have to do what's best for your baby, not you.
It's normal to want things with you baby and pregnancy to go a certain way, true it may not happen but nothing off, if anything you just feel better that you educated and prepare yourself
almost everything i wanted to do so far with my 9 month old, has happened. little things haven't gone as planned but that's okay.
Having a general plan is natural behavior yes.. But saying you're gonna do things one way & u think it's the right way, you can't justify what is right and what is wrong when it comes to raising a baby. My baby is allergic to milk. Couldn't breastfeed like I wanted to. It's the first time moms that are so judge mental and act like they know everything that is humorous to me.