It's not easy being a mum but there's a beauty in in with it self. Hope that makes sense.

sweetheart ur his mom..u r his everything. .lil man relies on u..ur his comfort. .love n warmth. u carried him inside ur safe haven n den delivered him in to this world..wen v become mothers u realise how selfless n vulnerable u r for ur child..dont resent d hardship u suffer but embrace it as wisdom..u can do this n dat horrible crap feeling will slowly fade..wid patience n perseverance u shall look back n laff at this moment. .It will get easier leigh don't worry. xxx

they are all so supportive but I feel like I need to do everything for dylan because I'm his mother, I just feel like crap and I hope it gets easier xxx

sweety most of us feel lik dat u not on ur own..being a mommy isnt easy..its tough to say d least. Trust me.. this is my third bub n ud think I was a pro by now but v only human..i feel ratty n den teary n den sometimes over whelmed lol wid motherhood..I got sore nipples a foo foo dat feels lik someone kicked it..back passage feels violated..a tummy dat is in desperate need of exercise n herondous celulite n strech marks lol n I feel lik a zombie by day lol..I cnt remember last tym I brushed my hair which is embarrassing to admit..u can do it leigh n I promise u it gets easier..its jus a matter of getting use to the changes. . u r stronger den u think..mayb u can ask ur mil/mom/oh for support..It dont mke u any less of a mother. .if anything u are facing things face on babe's n ur doing awesome. xxx

thankyou and I hope so @henrysmummy xx

You can do it! It's perfectly normal for a baby to take a toll on a relationship, it's very life changing. Leave baby with your partner and take a nice hot relaxing bath, catch up on some sleep or just do something for yourself like painting your nails or something. It makes all the difference. It does get better, I promise you xxx @leigh-amyxo

thankyou hun, i can't do it anymore and I feel completely run down @purity463 xx

completely normall hun..having a bub does change d dynamics of ur relationship. .sleepless nyts body changing n new demands has its toll on all..dnt b too hard on urself..remember u got a gazillion hormones raging thru ur system..try chilling n hav some 'me' tym.. watch a movie listen to some music go for a walk a brew or even a hot bath..indulge in something u enjoy..looking after baby isnt easy n its tiring jus dont forget u need to care for urself too..xxx