Woke up to a terrible phone call 😩 my "SO" called me just to tell me that he needed time to think about things between…

Don't allow your thoughts to run you crazy ... Try and stay busy ... Focus on having a safe and smooth labor and delivery ... All that other stuff will work itself out ... Maybe that guy is being moved out of the picture for someone better equipped to love you and your baby... Stay positive ... Breakups hurt like hell but they hurt worse when you hold on too tight ... Sending positive vibes your way !!! Oh yeah and forget proving your family wrong !!! It's about YOU !! Most time we "put on" for others who don't even have their own shit together... Do what you need to do for YOU TO BE HAPPY !!!

I'm sorry girlie. Some men just ain't ready to step up. I hope he comes around though.

Your welcome @thelmaalejandrasmomma , i was your age once and it hurts a lot and have gone through it again at this age but you grow and you deal with it and move on.:)

You're absolutely right, maybe I'm just being put to the test, idk. But if it doesn't kill me it makes me stronger, thanks. @squishy3

Thanks love, I really appreciate it @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom

That's really odd to me that things were okay and then suddenly they weren't. Maybe reality has finally set in and he's scared and doesn't know how to tell you? Either way, just stay focused and positive. And, if things don't work out between you and him there's always the future for finding someone when the time is right. My first son was 3 months old when I started talking to my now husband. He was meant to be in our lives, Unlike the biological other half. Message me if you want to talk more. Things will work out though.

Your going to be fine... This might be strange to you but like these situations were put in life makes us a lot stronger.. Sometimes this is how we grow and have more time to ourselves to gather our thoughts...:)

You're right, if anything it gives me time to prepare for what's going to happen. The worst part of it all was before he even left to work this morning he gave me a kiss & told me he loved me, then he just calls out of nowhere to tell me this.... it really does give me time to think about the last name issue as well if he's going to continue being this way she doesn't deserve his last name. I admire you for being a single mother cause I know its not an easy job. Thanks for your words of advice @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom

That's really shitty. The one "positive" thing about this is you have a week to prepare to potentially be a single mom, rather than expect him to be there for you and the baby and have him walk out when you're already sleep deprived and dealing with your baby. I was a single mom throughout my entire first pregnancy and I felt like that was better than expecting someone to be there for me with a newborn and have them walk out on us. I hope things work out better for you. I remember with my first born the week before my baby was born I was super emotional about everything but things got better. Everything has to get better. Just focus on your last week of not having a baby. Now would be a good time to think about if baby will get daddy's last name or not.

thanks love, I need encouragement & I'm sure my baby girl will make me feel better @rocky792

Damn luv, so sorry to hear that... I truly hope things get better for you and it will especially once your bundle of joy arrives.... that should kick depressions ass.... wishing you well luv