I do see that side of it too you def have a point @gingermama but I'm more angry that he lied. losing a job is upsetting but it's not a deal breaker. lying ruins trust.

I find it endearing that he wanted to get a job asap instead of stressing you out, but he had to know it would have ended up being stressfull anyway. He definately should have said something, but I do find it endearing. He didnt want to be a dissapointment.

I agree @tm21308

I understand that its hard losing a job but he should of told you.

exactly what I said @usmcwife @gingermama he has a new job because he had been out applying for new jobs..he cried when he confessed but it makes me so upset that he couldn't tell me. he has a history of being dishonest about dumb stuff so it causes a trust issue. and I was waiting for a paycheck to pay the bills that is now not coming.

I mean I understand not wanting to stress you out with a new baby but...where has he been going would be my question? it's also not cool that he could have been helping you with the baby instead of pretending to go to work...sorry girl 😯 that's tough

.. Aww.. Thats not cool.