tell me about it @littlemisssconi i just tried to talk to him and he acted like i was attacking him and saying everything is his fault

Never a good feeling! My husband was the same way. I think 6 months later, I finally got it through his head that he isn't helping and I need the support. Unfortunately I have no idea what actually clicked for him but I'm glad it did. Men are so hard to talk to without them feeling attacked! Super frustrating situation and I'm sorry you're going through it. Know you're not alone and you can chat with me anytime!