I ended up having to apologize to my MIL -.- she called my husband crying because she said I didn't…

I'm so sorry. you shouldn't have been the one apologizing. he needs to man up and explain to her that neither of you want anyone there until the next day. that way she doesn't feel singled out.

he needs to be the one to tell her that though maybe she will understand better.

It's only because his mother lives 2 hours away -.-

my mom lives 20 minutes from me, my dad 2 hours, the rest of my family 2 hours or more. I'm not letting anyone in. I'm being listed as private, turning off my phone except for pictures after he's born, then will either let everyone know the next day or when we come home. I don't wanna deal with all that. no one is entitled no matter what. it's your birth, you don't need the stress if y'all don't get along. lol I my mil was in the picture and my husband tried pulling that crap I'd make him stay home with her.

He was talking about how she will just have to sit in the waiting room and I was like "fine but if she tries to get in I'm going to tell her she doesn't get to see him until we decide to come visit" lol.