I really need some mommy friends...I'm struggling a lot lately and all of my "before baby" friends disappeared once baby arrived. I just need some one who understands and can relate and give advice and just listen. I want to be the same kind of friend for them, too. But after the baby arrived, they can't give me 20 minutes out of the day to talk to me or come see me and baby. Just really emotional today, I guess.
and I think that's the worst part of it all. im not mad or angry or anything like that. I'm hurt and disappointed. and this is the time where I really needed them most. going through postpartum and depression and anxiety trying to get the hang of things and trying to find our groove. my fiance is very supportive, but its not the same as having girl friends to talk to. or, even better, mommy friends who know what they're talking about and want to reach out and give some advice. @wisconsinmom
here if you need to talk :) My friends did the same thing. when I got pregnant they all stopped talking to me. after I had my baby they would comment on photos like "my cute baby! Auntie loves you". but not make any effort to see us. it's really hurtful