I guess I compared him to my dad. My dad left me when I was 4 an that's how I feel about it now. An he said it hurt him that I said that. Well, take some responsibility in helping me with our kids. Yes I know you work all day but at least help me. If you have time to play on your phone when you get off, then you have time to at least help me. If he doesn't want to help, then he can just leave an find someone who doesn't have kids so he doesn't have to worry about it anymore