Here we go again! 😒 (HELP)
Here we go again! 😒 (HELP)
I posted yesterday complaining about my husbands co worker/friends wife and her rude comments, we'll also yesterday, (as some of you may have seen on my Instagram) I posted a video I thought it was cute, a lot of friends and family enjoyed it of my son doing a little dance in my belly, the movements we've very obvious, you could see, his arm and legs hitting and sliding across my belly. :) I thought there would be no harm in posting it, as I have before posted on both FB & Instagram that I'm very much about my family & if people don't like that I'm constantly talking about my kids and husband as well as posting pictures of them, delete me, cause that's not going to change! The problem is my husband asked me this morning (he doesn't have a FB) if I posted that video on there, here's how that went!.
Me: yes I did, why?
Husband: well my buddy from work seen it and said you gave him nightmares.!
Me: shut up, he's got kids, a wife and they want another, why the hell would he be so immature about a baby moving in a belly, like he hasn't seen it before or something.
Husband: well Hun his wife is a bigger women, I don't think he's ever seen it so pronounced.
Me: your kidding right? It was normal movement nothing outrageous! Just stop it I'm getting pissed!
Husband: oh yeah & did you even have any clothes on in the video?
Me; 😡 really??? I even posted on the video that I had shorts on but my belly was hiding them & you could see my shirt at the top of my belly.
Husband: okay.
This has me pissed! This guy went back and told my husband about this video and made it sound like I was killing a kitten in it or something. It's like his wife talks shit about my body, now this dude is seemingly like he's trying to start problems with me and my husband! I don't even know what to do with these people! I can't delete them of FB cause my husband is always begging me to be nice to people. & they will tell him. I think I'm just gonna make it where they can't see my posts anymore. I'm getting really sick of this! Why are they picking on me?!?!?!?
deleted-user·
Really?! Why are they so obsessed with what you do omg 😂 I cannot stand people like that at all! I'm sorry but I would take them off ur fb immediately you really do not need that stress especially right now.. Let ur husband be friends with him but you need to stay the hell away from them lol
missing300user·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I actually asked my husband that myself and he just looked at me like I'm stupid! He starts being friends with people and becomes oblivious to them being assholes about me! I'm honestly thinking that's the best thing to do, but if their this crazy now what are they gonna tell my husband when they find out I deleted them, that's the scary part! Like it could cause even a bigger problem. I don't understand these people it's getting creepy!!! @mommywhit2
Melissa·
Мама сына-младенца
Well, you're just going to have to tell your husband that social media isn't everything. I have several friends who I don't have on facebook because they don't like what I post on there. it doesn't stop us from being friends, we just communicate in other ways, and that is just fine. I don't understand why people get so up in their feelings about not being friends on facebook. just tell your husband you will be nice to them in person, and facebook has nothing to do with that.
deleted-user·
I hate that look they give us when they think we are talking like we're crazy 😒 that is one strange couple for sure! Yea hopefully you can talk ur husband into letting you delete them off fb.. I mean just because you delete(or block😂) doesn't mean you can't act nice when you do see them lol
Kayla·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)
why do they even care about what you do or what you post , your not his wife and if he didn't want to see that why did he even watch the video to begin with ?? sounds to me there jealous
missing300user·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Exactly, that's what I told me husband, he isn't very techy so I pulled it up on FB and said, look dear, there's a play button needed pushed to watch, & he also read my caption which made it very obvious it was gonna be a baby moving. This people are really effecting me in a bad way, I mean, I don't like posting belly pics anymore, because I feel disgusting thanks to his wife, I even lost interest in getting my maternity pictures done because of it, I already canceled that! My husband is getting it to an extent. I tell him everyday I feel bad about myself and he's always there to reassure me, but yet lets people say this kinda stuff. I shouldn't be ashamed of my pregnant and it feels like that's starting to happen because of these people. @motheroftwojk
Amanda·
You can block people on your friends list from seeing your posts without deleting them. Although frankly, why your hubby would be upset you deleted someone is absurd to me. It's YOUR Facebook. Not his. And why are you obligated to have HIS friends on there, or anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable. I can't stand when men don't realize what they're doing when they put other people's feelings before their wife's. My hubby and I have had that talk several times. You should be his priority and he should set an example to other men, married or single, that he respects you and will stand his ground in order to continue to do so. YOU are the one he comes home to, who's carrying his child. Ugh. It's not your fault, it's his. Don't let other people's cruel words affect how you feel about yourself or your pregnancy. Be proud, share these special moments, and enjoy it while it lasts. Pregnancy is so short ❤️ you're beautiful the way you are (: and don't let anyone tell you different.