ugh I'm so angry right now with my husband's family!!!! throwing a fit because I don't want anyone in the delivery room but me and my husband. it's our choice! ughhhh they don't even come see my first son why are you so worried about me giving birth to my second when you can't even be around the first? ughhh
@sandra01, gosh that's upsetting to hear. The first hour is the most important time for you three to be alone most importantly you and baby to bond. If hubby doesn't support that he can snap some photos and go show them in the waiting room while you do your thing!
my husbands aunt and uncle tried to convince me they could be in the room and record our daughter being born i told them no only ppl in the room are me my husband doctor and the nurses they never came to the hospital when i went into labor with her i secretly think its because i wouldn't let them have their way not my problem his grandmother came and seen us for a while and asked us to call her when she was born she didnt drive anymore and one of her friends drove her to the hospital just so she could see us
right!!!! like I didn't get to have any skin to skin with my first son but like 5 mins cause everyone was in there and I couldn't breastfeed or anything I didn't have time. And sometimes I think if I would of had more of that I wouldn't had post partaurm so bad and would of felt alot closer with him. Like its my husband's choice to and then just want to make me the bad person like what the heck he thinks too not just Me @mamamoonbaby but yeah it's he worst lol
Ew people who get upset at that are the worst! Were you there when we made this baby?! No so why expect to be there when baby comes out?! Ugh your baby your choice. Period!
Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I don't know about anyone else but as a first time mom.. this app has helped me get through a lot of nights! So thank you guys for being here! The support is amazing! ❤❤❤
Who agrees ?
Are you sure this is my child and do you love me = I don't trust you I don't want this child and you don't love me
I just want his arms wrapped around me one last time and hear words come out of his mouth that arent true "I love you".. I miss him so bad. My first love! My first relationship! He was many of my first and I know today isnt even the hardest day yet.. I literally hate that I love him so much.
he does support me and he wants the bondness and everything like I do we both feel the same about it. and ikr it's like they are so selfish they don't wanna think about my sons needs first! @mamamoonbaby