need to vent... there's this girl my husband used to party with, and I guess they were good friends. she's cool and all, but he still has a soft spot for her and she knows it. i don't know if it's the hormones or what, but it makes me so irritated when she does the time hop stuff on Facebook and tags him in it. don't get me wrong, I'm glad he has friends. but he has a hard time setting boundaries with people and I'm used to being cheated on and lied to and this stuff triggers my anxiety big time!!
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@mygiftof2016, I'll try saying it like that!! I just don't know how to say things and maybe you're right! wish me luck.. I'm gonna talk to him when he's off work tonight! and @msvanessa27 I know I need to trust him, but I'm off my meds and everything bothers me right now. and I'll try!! thank you!!
Well I would mention something because that's good they were friends but he got a family now and if that makes you uncompfy then he needs to let it go. you come first! maybe he doesn't think it bothers you and I'm sure he'll be ok with making his love feel better 😉
well if yall married u have to trust that he wouldn't hurt u hopefully its jus innocent on his behalf and that chick doesnt over step boundaries. . try not to let it bother u unless u see something that is out of line
@msvanessa27, i've tried.. he tells me there's nothing to worry about and he wouldn't have married me if he wants other girls :/
@lexjj Its so frustrating!! and the worst part is that she's dating one of his best friends!!
my fiancee had a friend like that. then she deleted me off her fb and kept going. that bitch got cut right the fuck off. ✂✂ lol
Good luck! i would just say I know you have been friends but I'm feeling insecure or whatever ya know. I would approach like that so he understands and don't take it like youre attacking him 😉