Please tell me if this makes sense to anyone.
Please tell me if this makes sense to anyone.
So I went down stairs, to fix anthony some dinner. When I go down there my mom & 15 year old brother are down there. Key words here are * 15 year old brother*. So my mom told me that someone was coming over to help her cut the bushes outside. Calob immediately smarts off saying "why them? oh I don't like them so they arent coming over." I literally said, obviously mom wants him to. Then calob starts throwing shit at me, screaming at me to shut the fuck up, and he hates me, & hopes that I go die in a hole. I said " oh, I hope you cussing me out makes you feel better." He goes to his room, and starts throwing shit, and cussing and screaming, throwing the "f" bomb everywhere. My mom literally turns to me, and says " you need yo just shut the fuck up when he's in the room." & I told her no. That shes not going to yell at me and tell me to shut up, when HE is in thw wrong. She says " listen here bitch, you can move the fuck out of my house, if you dont want to listen to me," (she knows I have no where else to go) as shes throwing shit at me. How am I in the wrong? since when is it okay to throw things at a pregnant girl? When is it okay for a 15 year old to do whatever he wants? My father is abusive, mentally & physically, & hes going to turn out just like him. All I can do is ball my eyes out, why is this okay to everyone? So I texted anthonys co-worker, which is also his best friend, to tell anthony to call me, that it was an emergency. And I get nothing. Thanks yall. Yall are the absolute best.
B·
Omg girl, I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. They are BOTH in the wrong.. All I can say is do what you have to do to get yourself and your baby into a better situation. It may not happen over night, but you CAN do it!
Michaela·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Thank you. I dont see what I did so wrong. All I did was go down to make sure to save anthony some food, because calob will eat all of it. I literally dont have anywhere else to go, not even to stay the night for one night. Idk what to do. @txbree
Heather·
sorry your having to deal with all that mess!! my youngest brother is 16, he isnt disrespectful to me, but he is to my momma. I don't live with them, but she tells me how he treats her. my dad & her have lost control of him. he quit school, & we think he's doing drugs!!😭 just be praying for both your mom & brother! maybe you & your fiance can get out of that house soon.
Michaela·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I really hope so, its like this every single day with him. I dont want my daughter in this house with all of this screaming and yelling. I wish he would use that smart mouth to the right person, that will put him back in his place honestly. I will be praying for you and your mama as well n@heatherlg88
Heather·
thanks girl!! yeah, sounds like he needs a good butt whooping. lol if not from ur parents, then from someone he smarts off too. lol (my parents failed at the butt whooping part) do u think y'all will be able to move out anytime soon?
Michaela·
Мама двоих (младенец)
girl, I used to get my ass tore the hell up. but I don't think he even knoes what they are. as soon as I have Ellie I will go uo on the side of his fat head quick. & no. we have no car, no house, nothing. We were on drugs really bad, & I had to move back in with my mom when I ran out of places to go, and then I found out I was pregnant, and then he came with me. so we are literally starting from the bottom again, & trying so hard to work our way up. @heatherlg88
Heather·
yeah! it's like my parents forgot how to discipline with him. lol my other brother (24) & I (27) were good kids! I think the age gap messed them up. & I see, it happens. my hubby & I were on drugs really bad too (3 years ago) but we got in church & were delivered from that life. we started from the bottom too. it will all work out. just put your trust in Jesus🙌 he has never failed me. if u need someone to talk to, I'm here. my hubby works out of town for a week at a time, so I'm alone most days. try not to let them get to u. take care of yourself & stay positive!
Michaela·
Мама двоих (младенец)
well, maybe its because they are the babies. lol. We were going to church, but got really busy. im glad that all of us are off & doing well! especially expecting babies! okay. ill keep that in mind.. anthony works night shifts usually, I will! thank you for the input! @heatherlg88
Heather·
yeah, probably so!! right. lol I'm so glad we straightened up! you're welcome girl! hang in there.