I would be like no

I would definitely pray about it..power in prayer God bless you and your new born daughter..

@mamatorres, thanks hun ❤️ I told him that I really had my heart set on Isabella for a girl and that I liked Arabella as a compromise and as a result of that got asked why I liked Isabella (when I never said anything like that or knocked down his boy names which i didn't like all that much ), and was me telling him that my heart was really set on Isabella since we talked about me choosing a Babygirl first name and he could choose her middle name was that my way of saying that I wasn't willing to compromise.

@tiffrae, that's the exact name I chose as a second choice and compromise because it's the only "A" name I liked! He said he'd "keep in mind" which for him means he still doesn't like it and will continue to think of names only he likes and his family likes, then he asked later was that my way of saying that there was no compromising the baby's name and why do I want to name the baby Isabella or Arabella, mind you I never once asked him that or said that when he chose the baby's name for if it was a boy. I showed him the meaning of the name Arabella because I figured maybe once he knew the meaning he'd love it, but unfortunately that wasn't the case, then I got told to do as I wish since I mentioned to him that I wasn't trying to argue with him but I had my heart set on Isabella and would still love Arabella as it gives both of us what we want, and that we talked about me choosing a girl first name weeks ago if we found out it was a girl since he chose a boys name, and reminded him that he had full control of the baby's middle name if it was a girl, so I guess that that wasn't enough for him.

Arabella?

But you are her mama...I like Isabella a lot..just compromise with him somehow and just let him know that Isabella is still your fav. pick Isabella and another name with an A that u like and when she is here you will just know and after all that labor and hard work hopefully he will change his mind God bless you..

You go girl!!! Yea, the only way my kid would be named after anyone is if I had a girl her middle name would be after my grandmother who passed away two years ago! She was my best friends and the last grandparent I had and my husband was just fine with that.. Because I told him he could pick the first name if it was a girl lol. He wanted a girl SO bad... But, I'm having a boy and he isn't named after anyone either! He has his own name because he will be his own person! You name your baby whatever you want, ultimately it's your decision anyway lol you're the one that puts it on the birth certificate haha! 🙌🏽😍😍😍

My daughter's name is Alanna and to this day I love it and so does she...

@jas92516, lmao oh trust me I wanted to say that as soon as he started talking like that because with his family things were kind of okay until the baby came along and then they went ghost on me and haven't said anything whatsoever to me, not even congratulations or anything, and last time there was even a possibility of me being pregnant all hell broke loose and his mother called me all types of names and said I was psycho and trying to trap him and was just really mean so there's no way in hell Im trying to name my child after his mother, and I can't see my child being an "Asia" or "Alexis" especially when neither of his sisters are going to be that involved in its life besides occasional family events, I also just feel like naming kids after people creates this weird complex for the child that they need to act like or be similar to the person they're named after, and especially with his family they'll think they own the poor child, so my child's first name will definitely be Isabella because I like it lol

Annabelle, Or Anabella..

Amelia?

Girrrrrrl you're better than me, because I would have already thrown out a big ol F you and went right along with my day. I would NEVER name my kid after my husbands sister or his mother (I'm having a boy but I wouldn't even if it was a girl) they haven't cared for me since we started dating forever ago, nor after we got married.... Only when I got pregnant his family decided I was the greatest person alive because I have something they want! I'm glad my husband ain't like that and we already had our names picked because I would be fighting tooth and nail! Lol

Me personally I feel like if you like the name then keep it. At least you're being considerable with the letter a. If he doesn't like it then tough

@kimberlynnn, that's exactly how I feel! he picked the boy name (and changed it) and I honestly hated the names he picked, but I let him pick it anyways and bargained with him that if it was a boy he could pick the first name if I could pick the middle name, and if it was a girl I'd pick the first and he could pick the middle, but as soon as I threw Isabella out there he was just like "why? I want something with an a" which prompted me to come up with Arabella and compromise once again, and he was like "I'll keep it in mind". He feels like everything I come up with is "too white" or "not urban" and wants something like amber (my best friends name) or Alexandria or wants to name her after his mom (whose name is aixa) or his sisters Alexis and Asia.

If he picked the boy's name why can't you pick the girl's name? That's not fair. The name is ultimately up to you.

Arial

Annabelle?