My dr actually won't let me know until exactly 20 weeks

I was like that! I found out on the 16th of this month. And I have to say, I'm happy to call him by his name and not an it anymore! :) Congratulations! @ @deja1996

I just was wondering. Some people like to wait to find out gender and that's fine. I like to know early so I can plan. That's all. All I did was ask. @X ochaos @hai0122

why rush it? @marisagurganus

@marisagurganus to find out early at some places cost a lot of money. I don't know her reasoning but that's mine. I'll be 19weeks when I find out.

You can find out as early as 15 weeks. Why wait til 20?