@jessd1988, I felt the same way! I thought that was just me I still question myself like how am I going to be capable of loving someone as much as I love my first born

@mommyagain, I totally understand. when I found out I was pregnant again one of my biggest fears was being able to love this new baby as much as I love my daughter.

@jessd1988, It's like I love her but I haven't put the effort into bonding with her like my first and kind of feel bad 😟

I feel that way too with my second. .

@royalmommy, You make a good point

I'm so backwards Lol I did that stuff with my 2nd and not the 1st. Maybe because I have more knowledge now.

@royalmommy, I used to play music for my first talk to her rub her sing to her read out loud the whole 9 and now I haven't really done any of that for this one 😞

And I feel like I bonded more with my 2nd...it's so strange