Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I could really use some opinions. I'm stumped and dh is no help.
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
So I found the email he used he got me to believe he wasn't cheating looking for friends but I figured out the email he used and he bought a new phone to use....
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Lyndsie Kathryn·
Мама двоих (2 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
@jaydensmom,
Lyndsie Kathryn·
Мама двоих (2 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
definitely try going without the Dr. Brown's for a while. see what happens
Evelyn·
Мама троих детей
I kinda feel like that's what started it cause he was fine until I used the dr brown bottle @mommabear538
Lyndsie Kathryn·
Мама двоих (2 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
@jaydensmom, it is very possible. frankly I'm not sure how the Dr. Brown's are supposed to help with gas, in my experience they've only made it worse. That's my personal experience though. I love the Avent bottles though.
Lyndsie Kathryn·
Мама двоих (2 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
@valrocks,
Lyndsie Kathryn·
Мама двоих (2 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
lol. baby farts are cute. lol. my son was like that as long as it comes out, he'll be fine, try different ways of passing the gas, if you are only sticking with one way. also gripe water, or gas drops can be your best friend and are safe for any time, you can even add them in the bottles if you bottle feed, if breastfed, give after the feeding.
Valerie·
Мама сына-младенца
@mommabear538, I have the same issues. It's not that I don't try to burp him he just doesn't give them up. Half the time he fart's more than he burps.
Evelyn·
Мама троих детей
Ok I'm gonna stick to one and bicycle his legs see if he has a better day just want him to be peaceful and not in pain
🎀Jacqui🎀·
Мама дочки-младенца
it's very possible I'm sure I don't give my daughter a bottle but the one time I did pump and give her a bottle she had a bad night she had terrible tummy pains :/
Evelyn·
Мама троих детей
Do you guys think it can have anything to to do with the bottles I been using the avent and Dr Browns maybe the switching back and fourth ? @valrocks @mrscruz0530 @mommabear538
Lyndsie Kathryn·
Мама двоих (2 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
@jaydensmom, your very welcome, you should always try to burp after every feeding
Evelyn·
Мама троих детей
Thanks ladies he had been like that for 2 days and I think it's because he gets real sleepy and doesn't want to burp maybe only one time per feeding then he gets really cranky ect @mommabear538 @mrscruz0530 @valrocks
Valerie·
Мама сына-младенца
We've been using enfamil gentlease and the drops. We're 3 weeks
Lyndsie Kathryn·
Мама двоих (2 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
@jaydensmom, my kids were gassy too. especially my boy. make sure you burp after every feeding, usually if you burp long enough they'll let out a nice big burp you didn't think a little one could let out, Personally I like laying them on their back and gently bicycling as well, but you can lay them on their belly and pay til baby burps or farts, and picking them up over the shoulder and Pat til gas comes out. gripe water and gas drops are a life saver too. I hope this helps. I'm on my third baby but I've been around kids my whole life and use to run the nursery in my church back home as well as work specifically with newborns to 3 months in a day care center.
🎀Jacqui🎀·
Мама дочки-младенца
You can try to bicycle his legs sometimes when gas is bothering my daughter I slowly pull her legs up to her stomach almost like I'm lifting them up to put the diaper under and it kinda squeezes out the gas I slowly do it a few times and the farts come out lol I've also given her gripe water and gas drops they help too . She's breastfed though so idk about any advice on the formula