Just need to vent for second...So my husband has two kids. A daughter (his pride and joy) from his first marriage and a son from a crazy relationship after his divorce. I try not to talk to him much about his past, although im crazy curious. We have talked though a little about the birth of his daughter. He was able to experience the birth and becoming a father. Thats an excitement you only get once. He didnt even get a chance with his son because the mother is...crazy to put it in a nice way. When i think about our baby Logan and that its my FIRST child...i am over flowing with happiness :) but i cant help but think how unexciting it will be for my husband. Other than having a different wife and its a new child, thats it. He wont have that sweet look on his face that ive always imagined the man i would be having a child with to have. I love my husband more than anything and am so glad he will be the father of my son but i cant help but to get really down sometimes. Takes a lot out of me not to break down and cry :/
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Aw don't feel that way! I have felt my whole pregnancy that my BF is not really excited or happy about having another ( it will be his 3rd, my first) but I can totally imagine when our little boy is born and he's holding him that he will instantly fall head over heel for him. I know it's hard right now because I kinda know how you feel, I've felt that my BF doesn't care, though he saids he does. but just know that he will be truly happy in that moment when the baby is born. My boyfriend is a great dad to his girls, he absolutely adores them. And I hope he's the same with our son, or their will be problems! 😏
aw don't feel that way! my husband says things sometimes regarding his daughters birth and comparing my pregnancy and I have to stop him and remind him that this is my first baby! I told him a long time ago that he is not allowed to compare pregnancies or I would chop his boys off due to my hormones 😂 but seriously talk to your husband. tell him it hurts your feelings and you don't want to feel alone in this just because he's already gone through the experience. that's what I did and he's nothing but supportive! he's even getting the nursery ready before me 😂
I felt the same way because my boyfriend have two other boys
every birth is different my husband just saw me give birth to our 2nd baby & it changed him
I couldn't imagine how your feeling it must be hard! , but, you must have realized that when you first got with him, knowing if yall had a kid it wouldn't be his first and you accepted it. I honestly clunky l couldn't imagine what your going through!
Oh i knew getting in the relationship and that if things got to this point, they would never be the same as the kids hes had before.