called a lawyer last week they haven't responded yet... but bd says he's talking to a lawyer on the…

Call again. I wouldn't stop by just in case the lawyer isn't there or busy. 99% of the time you need an appointment

I figured. I just don't want my bd to file first. :( @mommybump2016

File for child support?

file for custody. @mommybump2016

While I understand why you want to get a hold of him and it should be done rather quickly, it won't matter who files first... My bd filed first and so he technically sued me... I still won and have full custody @jasminemaye

that makes me feel so Much beyter... how does one win full custody? @momma1416

You have to prove that it is in the baby's best interest to be with you. If you get a good family lawyer they will ask questions to the father that will show the kind of parent he is. Don't focus on bashing him or trying to bullshit the judge because they see through it, just be honest and show your baby's best interest comes before you and that you're doing what is best for them. We had eight months between the time he filed and the time we went to court so I used my resources to do parenting classes, become a CNA and update my CPR certification which also helped me. @jasminemaye

damn... it is best interest she's with me. he's not on bc either so what will they do about that? @momma1416 momm

They will do a paternity test @jasminemaye